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I THINK I'M GETTING USED!!!
OMG!! Listen i'm 14 and my best friend is 13 and were both girls. It's been 4 months that we have sexually been physical together. We don't get busy cause we don't like each other, but we don't wanna have risky sex and get rumors spread around by guys. When we see a hot guy and we are so horny we go for each other. We totally had a miss understanding about each other. She thought i liked her and i thought she was very changy in her moods of sex. One day i said to her that when we get sexually active on each other it's totally awesome to me cause it's kinky, i'm safe, and i'm doing it with someone i truely trust. These past 4 months she didn't wanna get busy or anything. When we talked that one day it was like i had to guess how she wanted things to be like. I was totally craving her so bad it wasn't even funny. I love sex and learning about it because it's straight up interesting to learn and do. I feel like i'm getting totally used by her. It's like every once in a blue damn moon i get to have sexual pleasure at her convience. It's always when her total crush at school doesn't notice her or when a guy that likes her is bothering her and she uses me as a comfort zone. When a guy asked her is she seeing someone else she quickly thought of me! At times she'd want to be affectionate and other times she'd be like "BACK UP!" Help me out what should i do about her mood swings. I'm horny and i don't wanna wait once in a blue moon any more!! Help Me!!!
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PeRsonally, I think it's okay to be sexually active with someone you tRust if you'Re NOT going out and aRe both UNattached to one anotheR; I don't see anything wRong with it. IN THIS CASE.. it's obvious that you *ARE* attached, and appaRently she IS NOT. I say this, because if she WERE attached to you... she wouldn't ***WANT*** to be with anyone else, because no one else would be able to even come *CLOSE* to compaRing to you and what the two of you shaRe. I say if you continue to upkeep youR sexual activies with heR when she's cleaRly using you.. it's a bad idea that is ultimately only damaging youRself....
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Don't listen to what other people are saying, about being disgusting. I think that maybe your friend isn't sure about her sexuality, and doesn't want to 'be' with you sometimes, because she feels she isn't gay. Maybe you should just sit down and talk to her, and ask her what she wants. On the other hand, could someone have found out about you and your friend? Then maybe your friend feels insecure about doing anything with you anymore, because people have been teasing her (or something along those lines) about being disgusting. Don't push your friend to do things she doesn't want to do though. Good Luck!
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damn i wish i was that close to my best friend that would be like so awesome <<but im not les>> you kno just getting to learn about how awesome it is and stuff..what i would do is talk to her about it or go find someone eles and get there trust then have fun with them.....pleas rate.....if you need ne more help or some one just to talk to....IM me at kathrenhallie
hope i helped
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