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hey i have a problem! i think my family hates me.....grandma,sisters,brother and uncle to be exact. ( to help those are the people i live with )anyway i think i hate them to cause they hate me and yell at me all the time so i should hate them to!i want to leave the house really badly. my grandma says i'll be grounded if i leave but i dont care what should i do?
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I really doubt that they all hate you! I think you are a typical teenage girl with emotions flying every which way and hormone overload. It will get better. Don't do anything you're going to regret later. They probably think you are being melodramatic about everything. Just stay out of their way when you get to feeling down about things. :)
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your family might not hate you. they might just express themselves differently. who knows? i think you should try to act older than you are and tough it out. i mean u wouldnt want to runway. would you?
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Don't hate them just because they hate you. And maybe they don't hate you.
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Ok, I don't think your family actually hates you they are disciplining you because they care, trust me I always think my grandparents hate me but they really dont... I think you shouldn't leave because if you did it wouldn't take care of anything except you being in more trouble... Try to tell your family why they are yelling at you there has to be a reason... for any more questions ask me! I hope I helped! From the one and only ToNy!
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there are millions of kids all over the world who feel the same way you do...like noone at home really loves them...or even likes them. many kids have felt this way before you and many will after...not to minimalize your problem...not at all...but just to reassure you that your not alone.
this is temporary. you will be able to leave as soon as you turn 18. take atvantage of the free room and board and plan your escape!
much luck
Louise
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Ok, why do they hate you. Are they mean, do they send you to dinner without food? Do they keep you locked in a closet? Did they take all your nice things away? Do they hit you, or bite you or spit on you? No. Well that is what people will do to you on the street if you run away. ANd that is just the beginning. They will also use you sexually. YOu will be hungry, you will be cold, and you will get dirty, and you will be scared, and you will have no place to go, then some guy will take you in, and you'll be scared but you'll be soooo hungry and tired you'll go with him. And he's going be rrrreeeeaaaallll nice to you. He is going to sympathize with you, and say that you had every right to run away. They were mean to you, they don't deserve you. But he will be happy to take care of you. And don't worry you won't have to go back there, and you won't even have to go to school. And here, after you've eaten take this, it will help you sleep. Then when you wake up, you won't even know where you are. But he'll be there and suddenly he is going to be so mean and say, it's time for you to pay girl. Did you think I was going to take care of you for nothing! NOw you're going to go to bed with me and then you are going to go to bed with my friends. And by this time, you are going to be thinking about your grandma, and your sisters and your uncle and be thinking about how much you miss them, and how you wish you could go back there, and how you wish you could take back all the things you said. and maybe they would help you, but you don't even know where you are, and that guy look scary, and he's is not about to let you out of his sight, cause he knows that you are going to run away the first chance you get. If you survive.
If think I am exaggerating. Go and look at my column. Look up the letters I got from SAM and LAUREN. SAM ran away and she had a good reason she was being abused in a foster home. She was so lost. She was beaten and drugged and did lord know what to survive. And her friend Lauren was frantic looking for her. Everything is OK now, but I know that she will never forget her ordeal. If she did have a family that cared for her she would have never ran away. Both her real parents are drug addicts. Is your family on drug? Do they abuse you? I think you will have to have better reasons that you hate them and they hate you. Maybe they just think you are a selfish brat and they are tired of you. DO you always need to be the center of attention. Is everything all about you and what you want. Try to be more charitable.
Listen if you run away, and end up going through what I just described.....if you made it back you would be the best little girl they ever saw and you will appreciate and love each one of them very much. So why not skip all the bad part,and just start being nice. If you are not part of the solution, then you must be part of the problem. Take it upon yourself to be very nice to all of them, and see what happens. You may be pleasantly surprised.
Michele
That's my story and I'm stickin' to it!
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You might just think you hate them and vice versa, but you really dont. They are still your family and even though you fight, they still care about you. Try talking to them. It'll help. And dont leave the house! It might just make things worse! If you ever need to talk just send me a message. Hope my advice helps!
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They don't hate you. You are 13, your hormones are going haywire and they have no idea how to deal with you. So, they yell. This is a very very common thing, but it doesn't mean they hate you. Just that all of you are going through a very difficult period in the family relationship. It happens, just hang in there and try to find some patience. It WILL get better. It may take a few years, but it will improve. Luck!
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Naa, its just you being a teen. You're thinking irrational things.
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