i have a bff, and she's going to a new school next year, and i'm going to miss her so much. but what if her new school makes her turn bad again? cuz she used to be bad and do cutts and stuff, and she had just gotten back to her old self, and was good. i'm worried that she'll turn bad again and do stuff that she shouldn't be doing, and i don't want that to happen agian, because i used to always have to take care of her and everything, and always had to be there for her, and it was a lot of hard work, and i don't want to have to do it all over again. is it bad to think that? should i keep being friends, or cut the string? please help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? liars_vs_lovers answered Friday May 27 2005, 9:51 pm: listen, your friend is probaly scared even more. shes worked so hard to get better and now its starting over when she doesnt want to. dont ditch her, this is a time of need for your friend. call her and reassure her that everything will be ok. that yall will still hang out and have fun. also let her know that you care about her and it would break your heart to see her giving up everything shes worked for. tell her that you love her and that she amtters to you. confort her. have one last night of being together like old times before she goes.
cailoisa answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:58 pm: I don't think you need to worry about making that decision now. Stay friends with her as long as you can. Good friends are really hard to find. As long as she stays herself, you have nothing to worry about. Start thinking about that _if_ she starts turning bad again. I hope that she doesn't, and that you both stay friends. [ cailoisa's advice column | Ask cailoisa A Question ]
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