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Is it ok to still think you pretty even though, some people think you ugly, or if they call you ugly then you should go ahead and say your ugly. I'm having that kind of problem. My whole entire family says I'm pretty and cute but I don't know if they're just saying that. My aunt told me that she wasn't saying that just to make me feel good, she said that she SERIOUSLY thinks that im pretty. Even my friend says every body should think their pretty because that was called self confidence. But i just don't know...
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It is just your age that makes you so insecure. I also believe that you are pretty. But most girls you age are so self-conscious, they don'[t feel pretty. It will come in time. Stop comparing yourself to the other girls in school, go to the grocery store and WalMarts and really LOOK at the shoppers there, the older people. That will make you feel pretty. But in time you will know yourself for who you are. Just remember it is wonderful to be pretty on the outside, but it is also just as important to be pretty on the inside. Pretty and nice are a great combination,that will win you all kinds of attention when you are a young adult. Wish there was a way to make it come faster, but there is not. We all age the same way, one day at a time.
Michele
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If people are taking time to call you ugly, then they must feel threatened by something you've got. Either they're jealous of your looks, or of something else.
It's absolutely ok to think that you're pretty. If you look in the mirror and see something pretty about yourself, then it really is there!
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Okay i have this sort of kinda problem well i wear tight shirts that fit my figure and i know im not completely skinny with a lil flat barbie stomach but im confident with it and dont mind having lil love handles.. well some my family says i shouldnt wear clothes like that cause i dont look right but my grandma thrashed them and said ya'll just hatin cause she got bigger titties and better looking figure then you.. haha lol but anyways dont listen to what people say they most likely hatin on you about soemthing and jealous just keep confident about yourself and dont let people bring you down by sayin some stupid shit to you.. ♥
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You must be gorgeous! By that I mean pretty to look at and a great person to know. I base this on several things. I am not a pretty girl. My family and friends tell me things like, "You have great legs and gorgeous hair! Your eyes are like molten gold when you get angry." They don't just say, you are pretty and don't you forget it. They specify what is attractive about me. They know I'm not a pretty girl, and they don't lie about it. They know I'm too smart to buy it. The next thing is that people bother to tell you you are ugly. That is jelousy. Simple jelousy. Finally, you are unsure even with all the love and confidence your family and friends offer you. You care what people think, because you want them to like you. That you actually seem to listen to what the assholes are saying and not the people who really matter in your life is unfortunate. That is the only non-pretty thing I can tell about you, and that can be worked on. Big Hug! Smile!
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I just dont know either. If someone says you're ugly. You could be ugly.
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everyone is pretty in there own way exept me of course lol but this isnt about me anyway i think you should stop hating yourself for all the bad things youve got n start to look at all the good things i mean not everyone is perfect im certainly not but i dont get down about it and i dont say im the uglest person in the world and im not the prettyest either but im sure you will find that you like more things about yourself then the stuf you hate and you dont need to be told your pretty just stay positive and these things wont get you down dont hate yourself cause you wished you looked like someone else youve got people that love you and respect you for who you are dont take it for granted show your family and friends the respect there showing you so when the next time they give you a compliment smile and thank them for it
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everyone should think they are pretty to a certain degree. not to much or you are just vain and conceded. but family always says that and it makes people feel worse, it actualy depends how old you are and what point of adolesence you are at everyone changes at differnt rates you could think you are butt-ugly one year and be beautiful the next. and if people are calling you ugly you should never think that about yourself. if you think your ugly and horrible then that lowers your self-esteem and low slef-esteem is what causes suicide...dont give into peer pressure. its all on the inside.hope i helped! remember everyone is beautiful in their own way! mucho <3 twstandshout32
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Even if you are beautiful, if you don't believe it, then your not pretty. Confidence is more attractive then looks.
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