Do you HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend? Because in my school, some guys act like they NEED to find the prettiest girl in the world and they be calling almost evry girl ugly...
Michele answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:59 pm: No,you don't, but that won't change until you kids all get older. You'll see when you are a young lady, at work or in college, looking like you just came off of the cover of a magazine will not be the most important thing about you. AND, those guys that ONLY go for TOP MODEL types will seem shallow. Which they are.
I am sorry, but you will have to be patient. Being a teenager can really suck. But it will be over one day. Sooner than you think. Concentrate on getting an education and being smart and confident.Men find confidence VERY SEXY.
cailoisa answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:56 pm: Definately not. There are lots of guys (the good ones), that are looking for how a girl is on the inside. Also, not every guy has the same idea of pretty.
Those guys at your school that are calling girls ugly are not worth it. Relationships based on appearances never work out, mostly because they have nothing in common. And remember, looks don't last. [ cailoisa's advice column | Ask cailoisa A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:53 pm: Well those guys at your school are assholes.. cause not all guys are like that some guys look for a good personality and there is something always pretty about a female they always got a nice future somewhere.. but forget them you dont want a guy like that they are so damn picky and will probably try to run how you dress and shit then your self esteem will be run down so then youll think you gotta be miss perfect.. you got something those girls dont got and some guy will eventually point it out and he'll deserve you ♥ [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
Karen answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:52 pm: No, you don't have to be pretty or attractive to get a boyfriend. Most guys like girls who are pretty, which I think is stupid and wrong. There are guys out in this world that do like girls, other than what they look like.
The guys at your school or immature if they really need to find a pretty girl, just so they can have them as their girlfriend. [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
LostAngel answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:49 pm: yes..you have to be pretty....pretty in the INSIDE!! duhh no you don't have to be pretty on the outside!! what really matters if you are pretty in the inside!!!! everyone should know that..and if these don't guys don't see that then they are really screwed up bc the outside doesn't matter what matters is the inside.
zapreth answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:38 pm: No, you don't have to be pretty. The guys act like that because they want to impress their peers. It has nothing to do with a real relationship. Must guys are too shallow to be looking seriously for a compatible girl until about the second or third year in college. Unitl then it's mostly a bootie thing and impressing other guys. That's why it's so hard for a great girl with not so great looks to get a guy in jr and high school. The guys will lay you in a heartbeat, but they won't concider you anything but a knotch on the bedpost. Even if the guy does really like you as a person, he'll never admit it because you don't suit his FRIENDs' idea of a girlfriend. This is called immaturity. Take what guys say with a huge grain of salt and watch where they put their hands. Luck! [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
XxKaTiExLeIgHxX answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:30 pm: it sould be like this
Personality=70%
Chemestry=20%
Looks=10%
thats how I think it should be but some guys are shallow and only go for looks...its because they are immature You dont need to have a boyfriend at the age of 11/12/13/14/15/16 wait till your older and more mature and until guys mature. Boys can be boys...they can be after sex, looks, or they could be true and really want to be with you for you.....dont worry because your perfect guy will come....some guys are just shallow and stupid and immature at this age and feel that if a girl isnt up to their standards then shes ugly, which is totally not true, every girl is pretty dont ever let anybody tell you different. everybodies beautiful and if some one says your not, they are wrong.....You deff. dont HAVE to be pretty to get a boyfriend....maybe its just not the right time...I hope I helped! [ XxKaTiExLeIgHxX's advice column | Ask XxKaTiExLeIgHxX A Question ]
advice~gurl answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:29 pm: Ever heard of the quote "Its whats on the inside that counts". Its true, It doesn't matter if you have model perfect beauty. If a guy is going to like you than he is.
Those guys in your school are really messed up, seriously. If they only care about looks than they are really missing out. Ignore them, and their stupid words they say and hold your head up high. Sooner or later you'll find nice guy that will like you, for you.
Duckie answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:23 pm: No, you do not have to be pretty to get someone to like you. Teenage guys have thoughts in their head such as, "I need a hot girlfriend." They're mostly shallow and immature, seeing as most girls mature faster than guys. There are those occasional few guys who go for personality, but it happens rarely. Just wait till you reach an older age, you'll find someone for you. Everyone does, you just have to wait for the right time. Just so you know, whenever you find that special someone they'll think you're the prettiest person in the world, so whatever anyone else ever thought will be put to shame. Goood luck!
x0xMrSm answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:13 pm: i know exactly what you're talking about.
it does seem like you have to be a pretty/hot girl to get a boyfriend...but really, guys like personality too (yeah, hard to believe, right). but i guess guys is your school/class are shallow, and haven't matured enough yet to really appreciate girls for WHO THEY ARE, and not their looks.
show guys who you are on the inside, and if they don't appreciate YOU, then they're not worth it...wait till they grow out of their immature phase. [ x0xMrSm's advice column | Ask x0xMrSm A Question ]
XSugarPieX77 answered Friday May 27 2005, 2:11 pm: No you dont have to be pretty to get a boyfriend. Some guys are just so immature and dont look for qualities in a girl. Most guys say they want the prettiest girl in the world to make themselves look better and when they find a girl whos pretty and she turns out to be a total snob then they'll get it through there mind that thats not the only thing in a girl. Thats stupid that there calling everyone in the school ugly. Whelp, good luck.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
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