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I didn't know what to put this under---URGENT HELP!!!
oK, SORRY FOR THE LENGTH...ok well i was talking to my friend online(he is a guy lets call him Tod) and he was saying that him and his friend(lets call him Ben) called my house to see if i wanted to come over, but i wasn't there so i couldn't. And when i was talking with him online he said that they had drinks(we are all 14 by the way) and they wanted me to come over to have more fun, and when i asked what type of fun it was they said, "A girl and guys getting wasted not caring what they are doing, like any base" So i just went along with it and then they said next time i should come. I mean i want to come and i want to hang out with them, bc they are my really good friends, but i dont know what will happen if i drink...any advice?!!! I RATE HIGH FOR ANYONE WHO ANSWERS!!!!
please i need advice.
thx
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If you wana go then go. If you wana drink then do what you want! Just watch out what happends because they might try somethin if they r drunk with you also. You may think they aint guna do nuthin just bc they your friends but that dont mean jack
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well if you want to drink to be with them then hey drink but pretend your drinking alot but really only take little sips and you wont get drunk and dont have more then 4 bottles. But if you really don't wanna drink then hey just dont go !! if theyre gonna pressure you into drinking then theyre so not worth it.
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If ur not ready to....well u no then don't go. Or if you wanna go then don't drink. But if you want to do stuff then go ahead. But remember if you get caught drinking that means TROUBLE!!
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Well sometimes when people drink shit happens that they wouldnt do if they was sober.. like having sex with people they dont plan and wouldnt want to have sex with..you could do something crazy and get caught by police and get in deep shit just because you wanted to have fun with you GOOD FRIENDS.. you could do something that sounds fun and then get hurt worse then what you would of if you was osber.. and from drinking there is many conseques such as liver damage and you can become addicted to it and cant stop and die.. Yea think about all that ♥ Nikki
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if you go you dont have to get WASTED! dont drink so much so that you dont even know whats going on...your only 14...and if something you dont want to happen does then let iot be a lesson do got drink at a guys house when all they care about is getting with you...a little pathetic..but hey....whatever floats their boat!!
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if you don't control your alcohol intake, you'll most likely become totally wasted because it seems like you aren't familiar with your alcohol tolerance yet. if you become completely wasted, boys might take advantage of you.
also remember that guys and girls have totally different tolerance levels. girls' tolerance is wayyyy lower, so be careful if he wants to challenge you to a drinking contest becuase you'll end up so much more wasted than him.
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Look put it this way they want some fange.. sorry to put it that way but its true.. un less they think its a turn on to drink with a girl.. I dunno.. But just stay clear or you might regret going.. Love Lil-Keaney!
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your friends were not drinking because first of all if they had been drinking they wouldnt be typing well and second there not friends if they want you to drink they want to take advantage of you when you are drunk keep that in mind
Signed ~Caring Greek~
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Hmm.. Im guessing that they just want to get you drunk so you can do something. Now, if you are drunk you will pretty much do whatever and not know it later. You could go over there and just not drink too much so you are drunk and dont let them take control over you. If you want you can do any "base" but at least dont do it while you're drunk because there is a lot of consiquences! Just be careful. I still think that they are using alchocol as an exuse just to get you to do something even if they are your good friends. ♥
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confront them about it...if talking dosent work bring a friend with you....<<some one who will trty to stop you from drinking>> and make sure you ahve a ride so if it does get carried away and you dont want to stay you dont haev to walk!!! and remeber drinking only makes you regert things and your way to young to throught your life away for just one night!!!
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HaHaHAhAHAhAHAhAhAhAHAhAHAha!!!! Okay, now that that's out of the way.
Drinking is just an excuse for their horny behavior. Oh, you'll drink. If they can even get you there after saying that, chances are they can get you to drink. The question is how much you'll drink. Hopefully not very much. If you go, I would advise you not to drink anything.
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