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Okay I was going out with my boyfriend for like 2 1/2 to 3 months and then I broke up with him because he was just not working out for me. But the worst thing is that he was my best friend and now it is kinda akward when we talk if we even talk at all. And he thinks I hate him because I don't talk to him all the time and i don't hate him I just dont have anything to say to him anymore. I just kinda need to know what do to here.
thx
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well i think you should email him..or write him a note saying your feelings...like that you dont hate him..you miss hangin out w/him as a best friend..ask him if you guys can just forget that you guys went out..maybe that will help
good luck
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Don't try and rush being friends again.. When you see him, and an opportunity presents itself just casually comment about something. Or ask him about homework. Something simple and without any flirting qualities. Over time if you guys were really good friends to begin with it should start forming again.
And you could also just tell him how you feel. Ask him if he wants to hang out with you and some other friends at the mall or something. Just find a way to include him and make it like it used to be. Don't give up hope.
p.s. good luck, if you need anymore help, don't hesitate to drop another question by. :)
--Sarah
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Try to let him know that u feel wierd and r still getting kinda used to the new circumstances. The Killers!
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hey! well i think you could do two things here:
1. you could tell him how you feel right now. after that just tell him you also need some time, and maybe after that it won't seem so awkward.
2. whenever you guys are talking, for awhile while things are still new and awkward, make sure some other friends are w/ you guys, and your talking as a group. this away you will probably have something to talk about b/c there's more people there to come up w/ things to talk about. hope it works for ya!<3
xoxo helpachick
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It'll be hard, but talk to him. Let him know that you still wanna stay close, just in a friendship. He may be mad, but if hes your friend he'll let it blow over and keep the friendship. These things are hard, but its a good test of how much he really wants to be friends. Be careful, but let him know you care about the friendship...
Hope I helped,
Jeff
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