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what to do
19/m
Ok I have been going out with my girlfriend for a little over a month. a couple days ago i was hanging out with one of my female friends and she pretty randomly kissed me. i pushed her off of me almost imediately, and we talked about it afterwards and were ok with it now and are still friends. here is where it gets a little more complicated. this is a girl that i used to have very deep feelinfs for. i wouldnt quite call it love, but it was close. i never told her, because she was for various reasons unavailable and i got over her. then i met my current gf and fell for her. now my gf knows that i used to like this girl, and she was ok with me being friends with her. now my worry is if i tell her what happened shell be uncomfortable. i know she would never try and forbid me from handing out with her, because she is one of my best friends, but i know it would make her feel uncomfortable. now because of an age difference (my gf is a little older than me and my friend is a bit younger) they will most likely never meet on their own so my gf would probably never find out. so my question is, should i tell her?
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If I were you I would tell her and that would tell her that you can be trusted and she will love that.
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sarah
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If you don't tell her and she finds out it's going to put you in even more of a sticky situation. Just be honest with her. You haven't done anything wrong.
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Yes. If you really like her, then you would tell her. She should understand and maybe be happy that you pushed her away immediately and told her the honest truth
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If you have no intentions of pursuing this girl, I don't see why you'd need to tell your girlfriend. You pushed her back when she started kissing you, and it's done. If it continues to happen, you might want to warn your girlfriend or reconsider spending much time with your friend if she won't respect the boundaries. I don't see why you have to tell your girlfriend now. It's as if you feel guilty- but there's nothing to be guilty about.
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definitely tell her. any girl would want to know even if it was something small and meaningless. honesty is important in a relationship that you want to last.
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yes. you need to always be honest. if you arent. thats when a relationship ends. trust me. happened to me with my best guy friend. only i was just hanging with him and he gave me and hug. and we were in a public place and a kid taht always lies told my ex. adn we broke up. and he wont believe me. so ya. can you help me out a lil too. pleez thanks
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