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wut would you do
ok so my bestfriends planned this whole thing to kidnap one of my other friends this morning for her birthday. well no body included me in all this so i kinda invited myself and i was gonna ride with my bestfriends to my friends house but this morning no one called me and no one came and got me then at skool they told me they forgot all about me (sum friends they are) then my friend asked me why i didnt come with them to kidnap her and everything and i explained the situation and she said she invited me but it wasnt up to her to invite me cuz i was supposed to ride with my bestfriends. this isnt the first time they didnt include me. they never include me in anything. i always end up invitin myself to stuff. wut should i do?
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feeling left out
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dear,feeling left out
if your friends cant even remember you and you have to invite your self. find some true friends where they will invite you incloud you so you can sign feeling included hope i helped plz rate me
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honestly, i felt the same way with some of my friends that i have known since i was little. all of a sudden it was like i was being left out a lot. i didn't like it but i didn't say anything about it to them, thinking it might get better if i acted like it wasn't happening. it didn't. i'm in highschool now and i barely ever hang out with these people. i still talk to a few of them, and now, i am not scared to bring up the past and how sad i was, because they are starting to realize their differences as well. it might be weird for you, but maybe the best idea would be to try finding some more friends, not necessarily ditching the other ones (although that's what they seem to be doing to you), but trying to make some more in case anything like what happened on your friend's birthday happens again and you feel left out. and who knows, maybe your old friends will like your new friends and maybe you can all hang out together. hope it helped, ♥
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Hey hun!
I think you should talk to your friends, and tell them it makes you feel horrible when they don't invite you to anything. Point out that they probably wouldn't like it very much if you didn't invite them anywhere. If I were you, I would probably go out and do something really fun sometime with some other friends, and tell everyone about it, but don't invite them. Make them really jealous by telling them what your going to do and how much fun your going to have. Once their not invited, they'll feel really bad and realize how their not being fair to you. It might actually work, maybe they'll start inviting you to do things with them instead of you having to invite yourself! You should try it. They really are not being good friends though, because if they were real friends they would be including you in everything they do. The proper thing to do would be to at least ask if you wanna do something, but instead they leave you out of the picture. If you wanted to, you could also just stop hanging out with them for a while, and maybe they'll realize their not having as much fun as they can be because your not in the picture, and their not being fair to you. It's happened to me before. I hope I helped you out hun! If not, I'm sorry. Luv ya! If you have anymore questions, leave them in my inbox. Good luck with this. Let me know what you decide to do about this. <3 KiMmY
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