Hi, I'm Corinne, and I would love to answer questions about anything from you.
I have a serious boyfriend (we've been together for 18 months now) and his name is Scott. I LOVE HIM VERY MUCH :) ♥
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ok. You know how people say kissing comes naturally? well the first time i made out i had no idea what to do.. it was not natural at all. Like i didnt know what to do with my tounge when his was in my mouth. and when i put mine in his mouth, what do i do?
14/f sorry if its a dumb question. (link)
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it's not a dumb question, you're curious. a lot of people have awkward first times.. my friends have loads fo stories. one, her boyfriend bit her lip. another, slobber everywhere. another, made weird body motions and everyone who saw made fun of her for it. it's okay if the first time isn't great, or even the second. i know that every guy is different too. maybe you two had different ideas as to what to do, and maybe the next guy you make out with will have the same idea as you. maybe not. it all depends. and if you are comfortable enough with the guy you're with, talk about it before. that's what i did my first time. neither of us had ever made out with anyone before and we were both nervous, but talking made it easier.. just being comfortable about it took a huge load off of it. and the fact that i knew oh, if i suck at it, he wont break up with me-we'll just practice ;] made it better. just talk to the guy you're with about it, ask him what he likes, what he doesn't like: i personally dislike slobber, when the guy holds back, when the guys mouth isn't open enough, and stuff like that. just make sure you brushed your teeth or your breath doesn't smell or anything, that's bad. don't just leave your arms doing nothing either. hold him, play with his hair, stroke his cheek gently, play nice =]
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i'm a guy and was wondering something. as the question implys, i would like to know whether most people put feelings or morality first, and why. my example is pre-marital sex. there must be at least 20 questions on that topic before this one...some say 'do it if you feel ready' while others say 'no because you'll regret it and it's not meant to be that way'. both seem good reasons for or against it. is it both? should you really put your feelings and that of another first, or should you stick to your moral values, reguardless of what others or society has to say about pre-marital sex. thanks, will rate. (link)
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see, morals are there forever, but the feeling comes and goes. prostitution, drunk sex, rape, etc. are bad, but if you love the other person and are doing it based on your readiness and feelings for eachother, then it isn't that horrible. and about regretting it later, sure maybe you will.. but if you wait until marriage, then how will you know? what if you never get married? there are some things you can't always base on morals, but by your own judgement, what you truly want in your heart.
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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks. (link)
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That's really great that you guys have decided to wait for sex, that's a responsible decision. It's really hard to say no when you are in a strong relationship for that amount of time. Personally, I keep almost everything from my parents with my boyfriend and it seems to be better that way, but in your situation, I really think your mom should lighten up a little bit. If she has talked to you about it and was prepared for it and everything, even if you guys have been having sex, it shouldn't come as that much of a suprise to her. But she should learn to trust you. You didn't give her a reason not to. If the two of you were fully clothed when you were asleep, then why should they assume anything? That is, assuming that you were fully clothed. I suggest just trying to talk to your mom when you two are alone, maybe on a car ride somewhere so she can't just walk away. Explain to her truthfully what happened and make sure she knows exactly where you are coming from, the reasons why you are choosing to wait. Make her understand that if anything does happen between you and your boyfriend, you will always be able to come to her and you really want her to trust you again. Then, I think your parents should talk with your boyfriends parents because not allowing him to see you is a little dramatic. You really seem to have something deep with him, and they shouldn't be able to take it away from you. ♥
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I want to know what I should do! ok there is this guy on my bus, at my school and is kinda of my neighbor. I liked him when I first moved at the school in 5th grade and mow I am in 7th grade and I like him still I used to flirt with him all the time and he used to sit with me on the bus and last year I heard around this time I was told that he liked me my brother is always hanging out with him and my brother asked if he liked me and he said that he thiught I was pretty and he thought I was boring and dont flirt any more but he wants to make out with me and stuff like that I dont get it ? he comes to my house all the time and my parents keep on joking around that he is using my brothe to see me but he goes out and plays and snow boards but my dad wont let me out and play and mow he thinks im boring well i think he is write and at least I could do is flirt with him more I have like once and that was yesterday and he got glassess and i told him that he looked really hot in those and then I thought that was corny so I want to do better my brother keeps on telling me that I need a b/f and I never had one before so I need one before my little brother gets one and he is only 10 my sis got on e befor I did and she is in 6th grade and I know now that I need one so my ? isa how should I flirt with him to start a conversation? I will give everyone a 5 if you answer this long ?. (link)
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honestly, because you are in 7th grade, things like having a boyfriend may seem really important to you and i am not going to waste my time telling you you're wrong because it wont make any difference. when EVERYONE else seems to have a relationship, even your younger family members, it would be stressful. but really, if they are what, 10 and 12, how real are these little flings they are part of. sure, on rare occasions, jr. high relationships last, but i think it's better to wait until the guys are a bit more mature. i've been together with my boyfriend since the bginning of 8th grade (last year), he's my age but he is also much more mature than the other guys my age. and i also know for a fact he isn't going around saying oh yeah i don't like her i just want to make out with her. you shouldn't worry about this kid if he's saying crap like "oh i don't like her she's boring but i want to make out with her" because that's bull. no guy who says stuff like that is worth it. find someone better than him, because trust me, there's comeone out there for everyone. and to flirt, which i also have a large amount of experience in, just smile a lot and flip your hair around. stand close to the guy, if he says something funny, playfully hit him and say something like oh stop it, just corny stuff like that is great as long as you're not too obvious about it. ♥
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does anyone know an exercise for ur butt? and theighs? lol it sounds funny but im serious (link)
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i get stuff from magazines.. uhh. there's sideways jogging in place is supposed to make your thighs thinner, squats and lunges help tone your butt. then just don't eat a lot of crap food because then even if you do exercise, it wont do too much good.
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f 16/sophmore. okay so im a sophmore in highschool and i have to say that there is not 1 decent guy in my grade. im just sick of them all. so this year ive started haing out alot with the upper classmen. Last week my best friend cheryl had a party and one of the seniors she invited i didnt really know. well we hung out at the party and weve been talking since. here is the problem, cheryl told me that she'd be upset if i hooked up with them b/c they are really close friends. I know she doesnt have feelings for him cause shes deffnily with this amazingliy goregous senior who she really likes, and thats just the way she is. I want to hookup with him and i might even be getting feelings for him. should i hookup with him and we both not tell her or should i talk to her first.. but what would i say? ahh please help i rate 5's (link)
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well, is you are really good friends with this cheryl person, then you should talk to her about it. if you have strong enough feelings for this guy, you should try telling her. keeping things secret from your best friend results in ex best friends, and that's not something you want to deal with, is it? girls are really shady these days and it would just be better if you talked to her about this guy.. if she has someone anyways, it shouldn't matter THAT much to her. i think maybe you and this guy should BOTH confront her about it, that way there isn't anything going on behind eachother's backs. like if you go talk to her then she goes and talks to him about it he might say nothing like that is going on between the two of you to make her feel better. just be safe about it, because friends are really important.
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apperently i have a major problem with leading guys on? but thats not the worst part...the worst part is not being able to just be straight up with a person telling them "i dont like them like that" even saying it nicely "your a great guy,we should deffinitly hang out sometime but a friendship is all i can offer you" is just way to hard to say sometimes. so ever since i broke up with one of my exes we have been tight, and i love being friends with him...problem he asked me to chill this weekend and i said i couldnt b/c of exams next week, so he was like what about over winter break, we should go to the movies sometime" n now we are close friends so i was like yeah sure and he goes "alright so its a date" um i kinda like froze n iwas like "yeah um i have to go" how the heck do i get out of this one... i mean i love this kid to death...as a bestfriend! help! (link)
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hm, sounds like me a year or two ago. everyone i knew called me things like tease, flirt, etc. but the thing is, these guys were my friends. whatever i was doing was going completely wrong. to me, i was just talking to a guy, right? but to these guys, even though i didn't like them, it was a little more. i had relationships that i didn't even want half the time because i also had trouble saying no. i went out with the same guys multiple times because i didn't want to turn them down and hurt their feelings and have them not talk to me.. but i'm not with any of them now i still talk to them, even though we're not going out. so really, just not letting it get too far is the best idea. what you really need to do is tell the kid you don't have physical feelings for him, you just want to be friends and that's all. if it changes anything between you guys, that's really unnecessary, because it shouldn't. in that case, talk to him and tell him you like him and you want to be his friend but he needs to understand that it isn't going to get any further than just friends.
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Well i have a aguy thats liek me...& these is the shit he dose
-calls me
-talks to me all the time
-loves to take me to class
-oves to sit next to me in classes
-always writing me notes...& i write him note...
I can tell he likes me...but i don't like him like that...what should i do if he askes me out?? (link)
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say no, NEVER PITY DATE. if you think you might like him even a little bit, maybe give him a chance, but if you know you don't, just say no. it's not worth crushing him more in the end for, really it would be much nicer to just let him down gently before you have to deal with anything. just tell him flat out that you think he's a good friend, but you just don't have those feelings for him.
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ok so my bestfriends planned this whole thing to kidnap one of my other friends this morning for her birthday. well no body included me in all this so i kinda invited myself and i was gonna ride with my bestfriends to my friends house but this morning no one called me and no one came and got me then at skool they told me they forgot all about me (sum friends they are) then my friend asked me why i didnt come with them to kidnap her and everything and i explained the situation and she said she invited me but it wasnt up to her to invite me cuz i was supposed to ride with my bestfriends. this isnt the first time they didnt include me. they never include me in anything. i always end up invitin myself to stuff. wut should i do?
signed,
feeling left out (link)
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honestly, i felt the same way with some of my friends that i have known since i was little. all of a sudden it was like i was being left out a lot. i didn't like it but i didn't say anything about it to them, thinking it might get better if i acted like it wasn't happening. it didn't. i'm in highschool now and i barely ever hang out with these people. i still talk to a few of them, and now, i am not scared to bring up the past and how sad i was, because they are starting to realize their differences as well. it might be weird for you, but maybe the best idea would be to try finding some more friends, not necessarily ditching the other ones (although that's what they seem to be doing to you), but trying to make some more in case anything like what happened on your friend's birthday happens again and you feel left out. and who knows, maybe your old friends will like your new friends and maybe you can all hang out together. hope it helped, ♥
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I honestly don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. He's wayy too protective, and he'll always say the stupidest things. I just woke up this morning & I really don't like him as much as I used to. Should I ignore this feeling, and maybe it'll go away? Or, do you think you shouldn't have negative feelings about your relationship when you're dating someone? + I'm NOT Pmsing. (: lol Thanks. (link)
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well, i have been together with my boyfriend for over a year now and we sometimes get in little fights because i will say something like i am supposed to call one of my guy friends or i think some actor (adam brody) is hot.. he makes me really angry sometimes because he is so sensitive, but then i realize that he only gets so upset because he loves me and cares about me so much he doesn't want any other guys to have me. i'm not saying it's okay for a guy to be overprotective, but maybe it's just because he cares. if you really are starting to feel like you guys aren't right for eachother though, make that decision soon, don't lead him on or anything.
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Ok so i havw this freind. and we always say that we are going out... its a joke but sometimes we will touch e/o and stuff. my other freinds do the same. so, today she touched me like kinda near my vagina area and i think i got horny and all excited. does this mean i'm a lezbian? does it mean we are lezbians? please answer.. i'll rate fives! (link)
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well, when i was a little younger, my friends and i used to mess around in front of the guys, sometimes kiss on the cheeck or something dumb just to get them all excited then be like, that's too bad, you don't have enough money to get me to do more. and sometimes you just get that feeling like oh god, someone is touching me there! because that is a really sensitive area for girls. have any guys ever touched you in this way? because maybe it's just that it's never happened to you before that you felt that way, not necessarily because you're lesbians. ifyou actually have had experience with guys and you still feel this way, there are other things to look into. when you're with friends at the mall or something and they see a hot guy, do you notice HIM more, or maybe the girls he is with? don't go telling everyone, "oh i'm a lesbian" unless you know in your heart that's what you want.
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Ok my ex of a year and a half and I broke up about a week ago. I saw her sitting on some1 else's lap. Is that slutty or what? How long is considered good enough to wait. Personally I think she is a fu@#@ slut. I heard u should wait at least the time that you were in ur last relationship. (link)
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some people just get over certain things faster than others. the fact that you are asking about this makes it seem like you still have feelings for her, which is in my mind completely acceptable. when you are together with someone that long, it's hard not to.
but you can't honestly expect her to wait a year and a half to do stuff with other guys, if you're broken up, can you? will you really wait that long? it's a little unreasonable to call her a slut for sitting on someone's lap. what if they are good friends or something and it didn't really mean anything to either or them? what if nothing else happened at all? if there's more to the story, it's worth telling because right now, my advice is to just chill and look for someone else who interests you, that would probably be for the best,
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Hey all.
I got this hair curling mouse, and the thing is, I dunno how to use it. I tried 2 times to do 'something' but I ended up with my usual normal hair.
Can you tell me how to curl it?...
Thanks loads.
Kay (link)
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i use gel, but some of my friends use mousse, and i THINK if i am not mistaken, that you put then mousse in when your hair is still damp, then just use your hands so scrunch up your hair. for me, going from the bottom up works the best,
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I'm a 17 year old dude. I've got hair growing everywhere on my chest (NOT gross thick like in 40 yr old virgin or anything), just a lot of testosterone.
Anyway, do girls prefer unshaved or shaved chests?
If I shave my chest and stomach, what about my underamrs?
I don't think shaving legs and arms is good idea. I mean, I'm a Texan and shaving my body is hard enough.
What about, down there? That region. Shaved or unshaved. (I'm trying to stay 'young person' friendly with this question). (link)
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hairy chests to me are kind of.. i don't know, unattractive. but really, you shouldn't do it until you find out if you could handle it. once you start, it's hard to stop. hair regrowth is itchy and it could be extremely uncomfortable. i am getting all of this from seinfeld, because there was an episode where jerry was with this girl and she liked guys without hair on their chest so he shaved his for her, and he couldn't deal with it, he was so uncomfortable. so do what you think is a good idea, you say your hair isn't that bad, so maybe it's not. just do what you feel will benefit you most.
oh and "down there"-i say if anything, trim. too much hair there is bad, but girls are supposed to be the shaven ones in my opinion.. it's nice when a guy has that manliness to him, hah.
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alright im really confused so anyone who can help me ill rate 5..here goes...kinda long
Okay i have really really liked this boy for like 4 months and over time i have gotten to know him more and when i see him we hang out..(i see him at church) ...but than theres this other girl who likes him also and he flirts with us about the same....but he grabbed her but which made me kind of mad.. but anyways he knowss i like him so he knows i get mad when he says oh "shes so hot" so he does that kind of stuff of purpose like joking around , but than i asked him for his necklace (it was a chain thinging you know?) and he gave it to me...not to have i dont think?..haha..alright well one time i was telling everyone a story and he was there and in the story cause i got in a fight with a girl and he said "oh your sticking up for me" and i siad no but i was and he said oh well i would have kissed you if you were...i dont know if he likes me, doesnt, or is just leading me on...and what do i do??!!? ..HELP. (link)
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how old are you?
that kind of thing always used to go on with the immature boys a few years ago, and it can make a girl really self conscious. if there's a guy you like and he's grabbing other girls saying how good looking they are.. not only is it inappropriate, but amazingly immature.
if you think this guy is really worth it, you should probably tell him you have feelings for him and see if anything changes with him and this other girl.
also, if a guy says he would kiss you and you want him to, POUNCE ON HIM hah. no but seriously, he said he would have kissed you, you should've been all well i would have kissed you too ;]
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