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f 16/sophmore. okay so im a sophmore in highschool and i have to say that there is not 1 decent guy in my grade. im just sick of them all. so this year ive started haing out alot with the upper classmen. Last week my best friend cheryl had a party and one of the seniors she invited i didnt really know. well we hung out at the party and weve been talking since. here is the problem, cheryl told me that she'd be upset if i hooked up with them b/c they are really close friends. I know she doesnt have feelings for him cause shes deffnily with this amazingliy goregous senior who she really likes, and thats just the way she is. I want to hookup with him and i might even be getting feelings for him. should i hookup with him and we both not tell her or should i talk to her first.. but what would i say? ahh please help i rate 5's
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well, is you are really good friends with this cheryl person, then you should talk to her about it. if you have strong enough feelings for this guy, you should try telling her. keeping things secret from your best friend results in ex best friends, and that's not something you want to deal with, is it? girls are really shady these days and it would just be better if you talked to her about this guy.. if she has someone anyways, it shouldn't matter THAT much to her. i think maybe you and this guy should BOTH confront her about it, that way there isn't anything going on behind eachother's backs. like if you go talk to her then she goes and talks to him about it he might say nothing like that is going on between the two of you to make her feel better. just be safe about it, because friends are really important.
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Seems to me, if she isn't dating him, she really doesn't have a say in whether the two of you hit it off.
Tell her, don't ask her, that the two of you are getting closer and might hookup. Tell her you don't want to hurt or offend her or ruin their friendship, you just really like him and presumably, he likes you too.
Not telling her would make it seem like you are doing something wrong, and you’re not. It would also cause all sorts of trouble when she found out, which she probably would. So just be upfront and honest about it. I can’t see a rational reason for her to have a problem with it.
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