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despicable behavior
Ok my ex of a year and a half and I broke up about a week ago. I saw her sitting on some1 else's lap. Is that slutty or what? How long is considered good enough to wait. Personally I think she is a fu@#@ slut. I heard u should wait at least the time that you were in ur last relationship.
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For gods sake man, just because you arn't over her dosn't meen shes not over you. Do you really think thats shes a slut or are you jealous of her? Hate to brake it to you mate but you to arn't in a relationship anymore.
She was sat on someones lap, it dosn't consitute majour flirting. Did she sleep with him or have you been told mindless gossip?? if she did, get over it, she is not your property and you shouldn't fly off the handle because your ex has moved on... get over her and find somebody new.
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some people just get over certain things faster than others. the fact that you are asking about this makes it seem like you still have feelings for her, which is in my mind completely acceptable. when you are together with someone that long, it's hard not to.
but you can't honestly expect her to wait a year and a half to do stuff with other guys, if you're broken up, can you? will you really wait that long? it's a little unreasonable to call her a slut for sitting on someone's lap. what if they are good friends or something and it didn't really mean anything to either or them? what if nothing else happened at all? if there's more to the story, it's worth telling because right now, my advice is to just chill and look for someone else who interests you, that would probably be for the best,
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hun, maybe it was for a different reason. i sit on my friends laps all the time. maybe it was a misunderstanding. try to give her one more chance and let her explain. see how it goes.
i hope it goes well. just dont take things to personally. and dont sweat the small stuff, because it's all small stuff.
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i dont think that is true about waiting the amount you were in a relationship, she is probablly trying to make you jealous, i think you should do the same
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ok frist her sittin on some guys lap dosent make her a slut,her f*ckin the other guy woult, and there is no paticular time your suposed to wait till you have another realtionship. everyone deals with break ups differnetly, and some people get over them faster, or they just dont show it.
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