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Hey ppl.
I'm Kylie.
I'm loud.
I luv to have fun.
I am a competitive swimmer.
I'm pretty focused.
I know where I'm heading.
I love theater and acting.
I'm luv to laugh/make ppl laugh.
I luv doing magic and practical jokes.
I'm here if someone needs me.
I answer your questions as best as I can.
I'm not on here to just answer them like I dont care.
so, holla.
I dont bite.hehe.

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hey guys i think i might be bipolar.. i know what it is but can some one explain it to me more and what can you do about it

thanks

♥ thanks

hey!
omg i think i am too!
talk to your parents about it.
or if you think it is really serious..consult a doctor. answer questions honestly, if they ask any.
I think i am too because i have very bad mood swings. Maybe thats just it. Dont stress about it. Its like one minute your happy and the next you are mad then sad then happy. lol. i get what you mean, but dont worry. seek help and if that doesnt help, it might just be mood swings.
Hope this helped!

ok, so just yesterday, 2 of my friends got in this big fight over something really stupid, & they said things that didnt need to be said or brought up, & didnt have anything to do with what they were fighting about in the first place!! & then one of the brought me into it, & got one of my friends to think that I talked crap about her, when I really dont!! I mean, they are both my friends, & I dont want them to not be friends because of this, because then I would have to choose. & one of my friends dropped the whole thing, as did I, but my other friend is still mad @ her. I mean, i can see why, but i just want her to drop it!! how can I convince her that its all over?!? please help..

Ok, calm down lol. Dont worry, Ive been in worse.
You just need to talk to them, all in a group and try to work things out. You cant blow a good friendship for a little misunderstanding.
Just try to talk it out with them. See how it goes. If that doesn't work, then give it some time. Eventually it will blow over. Dont stress about it.
Hope this helped!

I'm 15/f and really shy. I can't phone people, answer the door, buy things from shops, talk to people I don't know well.. and basically stuff like that. Everyone else can do normal things like that easily but I can't.. my hands start shaking and my stomach goes all tight, I blush and I just wanna run away when that happens. I think I'm scared of people judging me or something. I know people won't really care if I make mistakes but I worry about things so much anyway that I can't talk to people.
I can't even apply for college because you have to have an interview! I probably won't ever get married or get a job and I'll be a huge failure just because I'm shy! I don't know if I can get counselling because how would they be able to help me when I can't even speak to them? It's ruining my life. People just say 'snap out of it' or 'get some confidence'.. well it's not that easy, you can't buy confidence. My dad calls me a coward because I hate walking past people in the street.. which I suppose I am, but he thinks I'm pretending to be shy or something.
How can I get over it without seeing a counsellor? Are there medicines that work? Thanks xx

You dont need medicines hun.
You need self confidense.
Get out there and dont be afraid to be youtself.
Don't worry about what people think about you.
I bet you are fun and willing to give people a good laugh.
Be yourself.
You have to live life, not be afraid to live it.
Get out there and start making friends.
People don't bite.
Try to do some things yourself.
Remember..Dont sweat the small stuff, because it is all small stuff.
No, get out there and show people you are an awesome and great person to be with!

Alright. I thought since my best friend is such a good friend id make a list of 100 reasons why your my best friend. Can someone give like 25? (its a girl) Thanks I RATE 5!

1. She is irriplaceable
2. She is intelligent
3. She is astounding
4. She is couragious
5. She is always there for you
6. She completes you
7. She brightens your day
8. She is funny
9. She is outgoing
10. She is unique
11. She likes to be herself
12. She likes to joke around
13. She has a good personality

I could only think of 13, hope this helped though!

Hey Guys, I have a HUGE Problem, I know you guys are probably gonna say "You shouldn't care what people thinks!". Well I need to answer that. I can't help it. It all started when Me and My best friend Amber. We Arn't Like That (Lesbian). She has a Boyfriend and yeah I am Single. We act like sisters though. We 'Sometimes' share a drink (pop, etc.). What I mean by that is. She could be drinking something and then I would ask her if I could have a drink and I would take a drink. Now everyone thinks I'm a Lesbain!! What Can I do To Get Them To Shut Up? I'm Not That WAY!!!!!

Just tell them that if they have enough time to think you are a lesbian, then they have enough time to go get themselves a life.
hope this helped hun!
dont worry, they're fags.

Well I'm am in this thing called a GeographyBee and I really need a site help me study and it is in January!!I've already tried NatinalGeographics.com and that was not really helpful....I am an advice giver but I really need advice on this one topic!!
Thanks,chocolate_baby

hmm..try google or ask jeeves and see if they help at all.

my girlfriend keeps asking me why i love her. and i want to give her more reasons then 4 so can someone give me some reasons ty.

tell ir from the heart.
*she's beautiful
*she brightens your day
*she's always smiling
*you world opened up when you met her
*You could never replace her
*She is everything to you
*You can't describe how much you love her, but just enough to tell her that she completes you.

HOPE IT HELPED!!

I honestly don't think I like my boyfriend anymore. He's wayy too protective, and he'll always say the stupidest things. I just woke up this morning & I really don't like him as much as I used to. Should I ignore this feeling, and maybe it'll go away? Or, do you think you shouldn't have negative feelings about your relationship when you're dating someone? + I'm NOT Pmsing. (: lol Thanks.

hmm..well, ive had this problem before, too. it kinda of went on and off for me. maybe you guys should just be friends. tell him that it would be better for you, and if he wanted to be your boyfriend in the first place, he will understand if you want to be just friends.
hope it goes well!

So.. why do you think teens place more emphasis on their appearance?

yes, they spend too much time on it. why should they worry about what other people think. if you are happy with yourself, you wouldnt spend so much time stressing on what you look like. appearance means nada. the inside and personality are what light you up.

I am having friends for dinner this weekend, and one women is not allowed ANY dairy in her diet. (She is a new mom and is breastfeeding-and for some reason can't have dairy). I can not figure out what kind of dessert to serve. It can't contain butter, chocolate, or milk. Any ideas?

make a nice fruit salad.
after having a baby, she could use something healthy to eat to help her body heal a little.
mix some watermelen, grapes, kiwi, any fruit you want.
hope this helped.
its dessert, but it is healthy!

Ok my ex of a year and a half and I broke up about a week ago. I saw her sitting on some1 else's lap. Is that slutty or what? How long is considered good enough to wait. Personally I think she is a fu@#@ slut. I heard u should wait at least the time that you were in ur last relationship.

hun, maybe it was for a different reason. i sit on my friends laps all the time. maybe it was a misunderstanding. try to give her one more chance and let her explain. see how it goes.
i hope it goes well. just dont take things to personally. and dont sweat the small stuff, because it's all small stuff.

hey i pierced my bellybutton a couple of hours ago and I want to know how to clean it and can I die from this??????? I did it by myself

i have done this. it gets infected hun. its not a really good idea, kinda late now tho. even though this is upsetting, you have to take it out and clean it very well. it might turn black in a few days, dont worry. just never pierce it by yourself again. get it professionally done, no matter how sure you are that you did it right. there is always a slight chance you didnt. no, you cant die, so dont worry lol. just MAKE SURE you take it out, dont leave it in, clean it EVERYDAY with alcohol and peroxyde, and never pierce it again. do not put the earing back in. let it close up. the only bad thing is sometimes, like it did to me, is it builds a little extra skin around where you pierced it and a professional may have a little trouble piercing it, because they're going to have to pierce through thicker skin. hope this helped!

Heyy, im homescooled but about 2 or 3 months ago my parents promised they would let me go to public school..its been 2 or 3 months and, you guessed it, im still homeschooled. I wouldnt care THAT much but ive told absolutely EVERYONE in my town that im going so they all think that im going in the third quarter (even though im homeschooled alot of people know me) I dont want them to think im a liar or anything so how the hell can I persuade my parents to let me go?!

well, if you are homeschooled it is pretty hard to have a social life. im not saying you dont have one, cuz you may. let them know that you need to get out there and be with peers and go to school with People, not just by yourself. i know someone who has been homeschooled for like their whole life and they wish they had gone to public school so they can communicate and talk with people and have some fun. im not saying you dont, its just when you are young, you need to get out there and be with your friends. so, tell them that and maybe it will help. :)

Hello, everyone. It's Krissy - Krissyxx9. I'm going to get my hair cut real soon. One problem, I don't know how to get it cut. I know I want it shorter. (Maybe up to my shoulders?) With a bunch of chopper layers.

I was thinking that maybe I'll get some side bangs, but I'm not too sure about that. I guess I'm just looking for some suggestions on how to get my hair cut? Thanks guys. :)

hey go with what you want.
i had really long hair and i cut it above my shoulders and its cute, but i regret it. just make sure you cut it a length that you wont regret cutting it at. because i want to grow my hair out now lol. but anyway, go with what you want. layers and sidebands are really cute. maybe try some color in you hair like some light highlights/lowlights. i think it would look relly cute.

Since last year, my brother has been extremely protective over me with guys. I didn't know what caused him to suddenly change until his best friend told me that ht thinks that I'm a slut.

Apparently there was a rumor running around school last year that I did not know about.

I can't live with my brother thinking that about me it's really weird. The other day he had some of his friends over and I was hanging out with them because I was bored and they were talking about sex and stuff. One of his friends asked me if I'm a virgin. I said yes and that I've only made out with guys (which is true).

So, with that I thought that I had taken care of what he's heard of me and that he then knew that I'm not a slut. But, it didn't help. He didn't believe what I said!

How can I make it clear to him that I'm not?

hun, dont stress about it. ppl are stupid and start crap because they have nothing better to do. if you believe in what is the truth, then it will turn out to be good in the end. if you go along with the rumor, you will get sucked into all the drama and have to deal with it. you may just want to sit and talk to your brother and just tell him flat out. it helps. dont keep it all inside of you, because its not good. i hope this helps. just try talking to him, thats what i do with my brother when i have an if so problem. -Kylie.

today my dad and i had another fight and im loseing it. i cant seem to bear life in my house any more. i hate my dad and i cant live with him any more but i have 3 more years left to go. how do i keep from breaking down for good?

ok, ha. parents cause stress thats for sure. but have you ever thought that maybe he is going through the same thing? Your parents are only on this planet for so long. when you feel you might fight with him, try to work around it. your parents love you. dont say you hate him/them. they are always their for you, because if they werent they wouldnt be doing their job as parents. dont wish your time away and say you cant wait to get out of your house. because if and when you do, you might wish you hadnt. just try to work around and and appreciate the time you have with him. some kids dont have parents or their parents abuse them. people have it way worse than you. so, please try to make the best out of a bad situation.

What are some good ways to let me boyfriend down gently? I'm not into him as much as I used to be and we're just not working out. He never calls me and he never really talks to me. We've been one of those couples that looks so cute from the outside but there's nothing on the inside. I just need a way to break up with him without the old "we're better off as friends" excuse or something cheesy like that. He's a nice guy and he's really cool but he's not the dude for me. Thanks :)

ive had this problem before. the relationship sort of drifted out after we had been dating for a while.
yes, this is pretty cheesy.
but just tell him that things arent going very well, and you think that if you just stayed friends it would be much better for the both of you. because if you're not happy on the inside, its not good for either of you. its just bringing you down. i just suggest you tell him that and see how it goes. if he really likes you enough to date you, he will surely understand if u just want to be friends. i hope this helps!

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