okay, so since july, i've been binging nonstop.
i've gained 10lbs back that took me two months too loose.
well, anyway, i'm trying to loose that 10lbs again.
i'm taking it one step at a time. so i've been eating a lot of oranges and such lately.
is that healthy? or should i replace it with other foods. if so, what?
Hey,
I personally think you should keep doing what you are doing.. eating healthy (oranges instead of chips, chocolate is great). Just give yourself variety. Veggies are really good for your digestive system. Since there is a lot of acid in oranges, it can hurt your stomach. In my personal opinion, (what I do to lose pounds) is eat a great, bigger breakfast, a great somewhat big lunch and a little dinner. I also try not to eat past 8:00pm just because I know I am going to bed in a couple hours, and my metabolism will go way down and not digest food fast enough. But Since you are taking little steps (WHICH IS GREAT)... maybe you can stop eating at 9 for the first week, then 8:30 the second, then 8:00pm the third until your body gets used to it.
In conclusion, add more variety to your diet (veggies especially).
All the best,
L.
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15 f\ virgin
I'm a little older then 15 and a half. I love my boyfriend dearly. I really AM ready to have sex with him and I want to give him something I can't take back or give anyone else. I would have sex with him, however, I feel I'm just too young! I know for a fact no one would find out about it, I rather it be personal. I would like to know your opinion. I know I am ready, I just consider 15 young.
thanks alot, xo
I agree with her,
If you are worried that you are too young, then maybe there is still something inside of you re-thinking how ready you truly are. Just take your time thinking about it, because in the end, it's your personal decision and no one here can tell you what to do (we can just give our opinions). So I say listen to your heart carefully and be safe if you do decide to do it (condom, etc).
Best wishes,
L.
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Hi!! please help me. I am 14 and im not in the popular group (and never really want/ed to be) but i always seem to like the guys in the popular group which is really annoying. Anyway, I like this guy at the start of the year (term one) but then he went away from about a term and i started to like this other guy (who is actually his friend AND one of my friend's friends) but normally these little crushes only last for about a term and this one has lasted nearly THREE! i've only just started to tell people that i like him (including my friend thats his friend) and she wont say anything (and she thinks its "really cute") but i really want to get over him and move on. I am always thinking about him and what he is doing or where he is and i dont want to any more it is driving me INSANE! He is in my class as well so that isnt very good and i found out today that he will be in one of my classes next year as well so i have to get over him fast! I have tried getting all the people that know him to think of all the bad things about him (and one of my friends came up with like 100) and my friend that is friends with him has known him since kindy and she cant think of anything. It is the holidays now so I will try not thinking about him or anything for the whole holidays but that wont do any good. Oh, have i mentioned that it will never work because he doesnt like me. One of my friends thinks i should tell him but i have actually never talked to him except on msn when my friend gave me his msn and i talk to him in small convos but at first he didnt even know who i was! But i still like him. but i dont know what i like ABOUT him. ok im rambling now. Anyway, if you have some advice for me i would REALLY love to hear it!!!
Thanks
Hey! First of all I am terribly sorry for replying so late! I am currently in University and it was the middle of midterms.. anyways now I'm rambling! Anyways!! I remember when i was 14!! it was only 4 years ago!! but... I liked a guy who did not "notice" me. I am guessing this is your first true crush.. and believe me, there will be many more, darling!! But lets think of the present, right now! I think that you should just be yourself! You seem to be an awesome young lady with a great personality! Just show the guy your brillant personality and your pros. I mean, (and no offence).. but I am guessing he is the same age as you.... anyways, take this from a girl who has been through it!! I just believe that guys take a little longer to mature than us girls do. So I mean he might not notice you right away, but I am sure that in time he will. I also think that you should lay a tad low on telling friends. The only reason I am saying this is because I have seen girls, (my friends) tell other friends and the word gets out publically. I see that you talk to him on msn a lot. I think thats a great start. Maybe see what you guys have in common. Maybe even ask him to a movie if/when the time is right, just you two. All in all, I would just like to wish you good luck and I hope my advice was good. I am again really sorry about the late reply.
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my hair is completely recked from straightening my hair everyday. i love to wear my hair straight. so what are absolutely amazing shampoos and conditioners and like soothing milks that i could use to make my hair look unfrizzy soft and silky? and also, fix all my dead ends. please help! i rate 5 just for answering
2 words:
Pantine Pro-V Winter rescue.. (well, actually more than 2 words)
It works like a charrrm.. and it wouldnt hurt getting your hair trimmed a little for a fresher, healthier look. There are also hair masks you can buy at places like Shoppers Drug Mart, (if your in USA.. im sorry, i live in Canada)
Hope i helpeeeddd!!!:D:D
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Ok,I just found out that this girl has been putting birth control pills in my food at lunch,I need too know if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this. I'm really worried because I'm a guy,should I go to the Doctors??? Or is there a website I can go to and check if anything bad is going to happen to me because of this.
Make the cops arrest or charge her sorry ass and also go to the Doc's to check up and make sure you're okay!! I hope everything works out alright! (It probably will!!) sorry this is so repetitive but whoever did that to you is a loser!!!
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Does getting your eyebrows hurt?
i want the truth please (=
ive heard many things about it
and i want expreienced people.
mmkthanks i rate
I dont know what you're asking...
Well, if you are talking about getting them waxed...
It does hurt a little but trust me.. its sooo worth it.
If you are talking about getting your brow pierced..
My friend who has it done says that it hurts but just keep cleaning it and it will be okay after a week.
Either Way.. Hope I helped:D
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i`m shy when it comes to guys and i hate to watch other girls flirting with the guy i like .. how do i overcome that kind of thing?
Well, i'm like that too.. well, i was like that.. but this is what i did and i hope it helps!
*If he was in my class, and sitting somewhat next to me, i would ask him a question about the subject we're learning or ask him what he thinks.
*I know this sounds cheesy but once you start a spark of conversation with him, then you can gradually talk to him more and if you like him, the flirting will just come smoothly.
*If your friend is the one flirting with him, or if you usually talk to the girl, you can (and only if you trust her), ask her to introduce you guys. Even just walk up to them and talk to your friend, then just join in the convo.
*All in all, if you like the guy, talk to him! Whats the worst that can happen. If i did it, so can you, hun!! You're probably really nice and the guy will probably totally dig you! You just need to be yourself!!!
I hope I helped:D
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ok girls...
how do you get you eh hem...down there...smelling better?
i heard you can spray your panties with perfume then iron them.. i never tried it, but im sure it will do the job.
I hope i helped:D
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I have Msn Messenger for about 4 months now. The problem is, is that when you play a song on Windows Media Player it won't show up on Msn Messenger. I've clicked "Turn On What I'm Listing To" and it still doesn't work. It did the same thing a while back before I downloaded the never verison. It would work or a week and then quit. So whats up with that?
Ooh Ooh I know this answer! Had the same issue... This is what you do:
*On Windows Media Player go to Tools
*then from tools go to plug-ins
*If Msn messenger is there, just click it and it should checkmark
*If Msn messenger does not show up there, go to download plug-ins from tools/plugins, then Msn messenger should be on there.
I hope i helped:D
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ok.....i have curly/wavy hair...but i spend 30 mins. everyday straiting it and i'm afraid im straiting it and its frying my hair!! i like it straitened...but its dull and boring...i wish i could wear it curly...but its just frizzy and i try everythign to make it not frizzy...but i cant really find anything...any ideas?
I had the same problem right here, yep!
Since you have been straightening your hair, it is now fryed and thus frizzing more than usual. You should try these things:
* Get it trimed or better yet, cut (but not to the point where you have a fro.. unless you want one of course;))
* Use Pantene Pro-V curl shampoo and conditioner until the bottle is gone
* Buy some cream.. Pantene Pro-V works well, and scrunch it in your hair.
* Mousse is awesome to use too, but try to use the cream before you use the mousse because it will totally wreck your hair
* You can buy some hair masks that you put in your hair after you shampoo and conditioner and leave it in for a certain time, then just wash it off with water, (Shoppers)
I hope I helped:D
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hey im 15/f is there any way i can get my legs sexier? cuz i have some marks on my legs... etc and i just wanted 2 know if there was any ways i could get cuter legs? i rate high!
Oh my gosh:D! The next time you shave your legs, (dont think I'm a freak or anything) but rub margarine on them and then wash it off.. i swear it will look sooo sexy and soft and smooth!!! It also for some reason extends the time period before the hair starts growing again.
You should do that before you go swimming or in a hot tub because after you get out of the water, your legs will look so sexy and smooth. I got a lot of compliments when i did it! ;)
I hope I helped:D
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So it's come to the point where I'm tired of shaving my legs every 2 or 3 days. I know that waxing in high on the pain scale but I was wondering if there were any good at home waxing kits. Or hair removal. I've never tried Nair before and I'm not excatly sure how well the resualts are.
Also.. read no further if you have problems about your kitty being hairless.
I want to know if there are any waxing kits or hair removal that will also work good in that area without really irratating the skin or anything.
Thanks all, I'll rate 5's.
Nair Roll-On Waxing kits are sooo good! they work very very well.
Nair Hair removal cream does not work very well on my legs.. its exactly like shaving and it smells!!!:S
Also, there is a cream you can put on after you shave or wax.. its called Jergens.. its a blue and white cream bottle and it reduces the hair on your legs.. it works a lot especially after you wax or shave.
Now about that other part.. i use a wax that you can get from an Arabic store that you use with your hands and not a cloth. The wax is made from real ingredients like honey, lemon, sugar and salt. It is very painless.. I also use it on the other parts of my body. It is really good stuff. Ask anyone you know that is from Israel, or Lebanon.. its called "Sucar" and its wax.. but you use it with your hands and not a cloth. I should try to get the recipe.
I hope I helped!!:D
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I am atenth class student, my home atmosphere is for medical. I have a little pressure to study medical but my mind is for engineering according to me- What shall i do?
Honestly, medicine is awesome and its sooo great that you are lucky enough to study something so spectacular. Engineering is soooo awesome as well. My dads an engineer. He loves his job. I was the opposite of you; i thought my "job" was engineering because it runs in my family. My dad told me that if you love physics, mathematics, and if you can be very stubborn, then engineering might be the path for you. If you love to build, plan.. anything like that.. then engineering is a cool thing to do.
Medicine on the other hand involves more Chemistry, Bio.. (you know this already).. well, if you have a passion to help others in the sense of health, then go medicine.
All in all, You are still only in tenth,(10th grade I'm guessing). You have time to decide. My words of wisdom is to reach for your dream because in the end, it's your life you're living, not your parents'.
*I dont know about where you live, but here in Canada, you can become an engineer and go to medical school. There are also Medical engineers now-a-days!
Good luck in school and ask if you need anything else!
I hope I helped:D
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how do i reduce the redness of a spot?
and i use to have a big spot but now its gone but its still red like a scar how do i get rid of that too?thanx ill rate high
xxx
My friend told me the best thing to do is put Vitamin E cream on it and then cover it up with a little make-up.. it should soon go away!
Hope I helped:D
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my mother is abussive she curse me and i dont like even comming home becuase she is like that her husband is a crack head and is lways in and out of jail please tell me what to do i just turned 16 and i live in georgia plese help
Now a days there are teen help lines for situations like this. They are totally free of charge, confidential, and no one will know you called!
This is one: (205) 328-5465
If this one does not work for you, you just have to search or just tell me and i will be happy to search for you. Im really sorry about your situation.. I dont know what else to say
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i have this really pretty,skinny,friend.all the boys are atracted to her not me. i dont know how to tell her im jealus of her? and i dont know how to get over it? plz help me before christmas is over. it is urgent.
p.s i rate high
Personally, if guys are just looking at her body, and thats why they like her......Then they're stupid! You probably have a great personality. I know how hard it is.. I was in your situation once. I dont think its jealousy. When I was in your position, I wasnt as jealous as i was angry. I was really upset about why guys liked my tall-skinny friend and not me. I became really self-concious. But when I was in grade 10, thats when guys start to realize the personality more than the skinny body. (They realize a nice curvy body is the way to go!;)) So just give it time. And Hey! maybe you're not looking around hard enough.. because you never know who likes you! I bet you somebody does!!! ;)
Hope I helped! :D
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ok i dont know if i should get something for my parents on christmas and if i do what should i get them
Well hun, I think its all up to you if you want to buy your parents a present or not. It's not like they'll hate you for not buying them a present or anything, but personally, i started to buy my parents presents in grade 9 without the other's help. But if you do, you can think of these ideas:
Mom:
*A new shirt
*A nice pullover sweater or zip-up (i just bought one for my mom from Sears.. they have nice clothes believe it or not!)
*A mug that says "Mom" or "Merry Christmas" etc..
*Even some body wash in a pretty basket
*You can always make something for her too.. like hmm.. a gift certificate saying you will clean the house for a month free of charge or something
Dads: (much harder to buy for in my opinion)
*Nice Sweater or dress shirt
*Tie (something cool.. that YOU, his loving child picked out themself)
*Socks
*Mug
All in all, it really depends on your parents personality. If you need any more ideas, dont be afraid to ask! Hope I helped:D
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does anyone know any REALLY REALLY good songs about missing someone and loving them but more about missing them and all that? thanks.
Honestly hun, my favourite right now its
James Blunt- You're beautiful
The other songs listed above are awesome too!
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Ok heres the story, im going to try to make it short.... i have younger borhter who has a friend who has an older brother and ive known him for since like forever. We are really good friends and our brothers keep on saying that we should get married so that they can be realted. Anyway my friends keep on saying that he likes me but i can't see it. He's told me that he likes this other girl, but he invites me to go see the stars on a summer night and we go to the movies togehter. He invtied me to go to a hcokey game just me and him and when i asked him why he didn't ask the girl he likes he said he would rather go with me and that she doesn't like hockey, i couldn't go though:( Most recently he got tickets to go see pink floyd (which i love) and he invited me to go. I told that he didn't have to bring me, that he should ask the girl he likes because a relationship could spark up (trying to be encouraging for him) but he told me there was no relationship going to be built, so he doesn't want to take her, he wants to take me. I am so confused i always thought of him as a friend but this happeneing and my friends telling me he likes me has gotten me confuzed. What do you think is going on? please help, thanks
Well, I have a friend who has a guy friend exactly like that.. so i say... he totally likes u! You guys are probably soooo cute together. I also think that you should...
*ask him if its bothering you
*If he ignores you in school, its probably because hes not used to you're friends
*He obviously does not like the other girl... she sounds evil btw.. lol
Love ya! Hope this helps!
XOXOXOXOX
hehe;)
PS: HE TOTALLY LIKES YOU
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I don't think I have an eating disorder but some people say I am on my way onto being annorexic. I mean I am 93lbs and 15 years old. I am always watching my weight making sure I am not over 95lbs. I know it may sound crazy but I don't know.. if I get at 95 or above not usually to 98 though I quit eating till I am back to 93lbs. I don't know why I do this but it is just how I am. I do not eat Breakfast or Lunch but always Supper. So please help me and give me some reasonable advice other than "you need to eat breakfast and lunch cuz its not healty" cuz that is all people seem to say, I mean my boyfriend is worried but to me this is the only way to control MY life.
Hun, if u keep controling your life like this, YOU WONT HAVE A LIFE!!! Please please please understand the consequence of anorexia. Instead of taking action for your life in the sense of not eating, you can take a class that you really enjoy and that really calms you and that is like a different world when you do it. My friend was bulimic. She was bulimic because she thought that what she put inside her body was the only thing that she could control in her life. So when i told her my advice, she decided to take up drama. Now, she stopped her bulimia and drama is what she can thank. It helped her get away from all the stress she's been through and was her secret passion. Now, I'm not telling you to take up acting, but try to find something that you're interested in, and that you can control; something that is like your heaven.. your passion! And Please eat!:D
(If this continues, please be proactive and seek professional help!)
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