Question Posted Thursday December 22 2005, 7:09 pm
i have this really pretty,skinny,friend.all the boys are atracted to her not me. i dont know how to tell her im jealus of her? and i dont know how to get over it? plz help me before christmas is over. it is urgent.
lind12 answered Thursday December 22 2005, 9:11 pm: Personally, if guys are just looking at her body, and thats why they like her......Then they're stupid! You probably have a great personality. I know how hard it is.. I was in your situation once. I dont think its jealousy. When I was in your position, I wasnt as jealous as i was angry. I was really upset about why guys liked my tall-skinny friend and not me. I became really self-concious. But when I was in grade 10, thats when guys start to realize the personality more than the skinny body. (They realize a nice curvy body is the way to go!;)) So just give it time. And Hey! maybe you're not looking around hard enough.. because you never know who likes you! I bet you somebody does!!! ;)
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Looking4princecharming answered Thursday December 22 2005, 8:49 pm: Probably not ALL the guys like her. Some may like you but never tell anyone. And about the jealousy stuff well just tell her the more you keep it in the more it will become. Then all of the sudden the whole jealousy thing can ruin your entire friendship. Plus all the guys that you think are attracted to her are the ones you like right? Well that doesn't mean that all of them are attracted to her.
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