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okay i am 14/f in case it matters
okay well you see, my cousins from arizona came up for christmas and new years to visit us. one is 16 and the other is 22. well they came up and they were staying at my grandmas hosue. well i wanted to hang out with them so i figured id spend the night (by the way both of my cousins are guys). anyways so i got there and my grandparents werent there. my cousins said that they went to dinner 2 hours away at some really fancy returaunt. well, they took me upstairs and they told me to sit ont the bed. they started kissing me and slowy putting their hands down my pants and up my shirt. since i had never had a real boyfriend befor they told me that they were only showing me what to expect when i had one. so thye kept doing all this stuff to me and made me do some weird stuff to them and practically forced me to have sex with them.
i know its wrong and that i should tell someone one but what wiill people say when i tell them i had sex with my cousins? please help me idont know what to do =(
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First off, I want to tell you that being a lesbian has nothing to do with this at all. Also, a lot of victims leave a situation like this feeling guilty and thinking that it was their fault. You are a victim of sexual abuse and it is not your fault. They forced you to do it and they are older and more responsible than you. Now, I don't know if you have ever read a Chicken Soup book, but go to the library and check out Chicken Soup for the Kids Soul. Once you have that book, I want you to read the story titled Get Help Now, written by Tia Thompson, Just so you have an idea of how bad it can get. You need to tell someone about it. Tell anyone who will listen. And you don't have to say it like "I had sex with my cousins". Because literally, you didnot have sex with your cousins. It is not real sex if you do not have a say in the matter. In this case, they had the say in the matter and you had no say. You need to understand that you were sexually abused by your cousins. You need to tell someone that you were "sexually abused". You need to tell anyone who will listen. Not everyone will listen. But keep talking until someone listens. Eventually someone will listen. You have other advicenators listening and giving you advice. But keep talking until you get justice. Tia Thompson messed her life up when she didnot talk. And once she talked, it got better, slowly but surely it will get better for you. Now go out there and talk to someone about it and if you need some guidence, don't be scared to send me an e-mail or instant message or offline message. halfbloodprince123087@yahoo.com
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on one of my ?'s you wrote Fix the settings on the keyboard. how do i do that
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I want to apologize about that. I was being mean and what I said was to delete your entire hard drive but not in those words. Once again I apologize for wasting your time and it will not happen again.
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halfbloodprince123087
If you want to improve your rating you need to only answer the questions that you can give some useful advice to.
Please do not just answer questions saying "I don't no", or "keep looking". Give a good, well thought out answer or just leave the question alone.
You are not expected to answer them all. Pick and choose wisely and your ratings will go up. (link)
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Thanx a bunch
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Ok I wash my hair like every week because I put lot's of gel and stuff in it and I also straighten and curl different bits of it e.g. pack the back and do a little curly fringe at the front.any way I'm black so I have naturally tough hair but I permed it so it's straight but I've got a lot of split ends and my hair is always cutting but people are always telling me it looks good and I know it looks good and I like that but it only looks good because I use gel but I don't want to use gel any more because I want my hair to grow but how can I make my hair grow quick and still look good? I RATE 'S FOR ALL REASONABLE ANSWERS (link)
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I know nothing about styling hair.
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ok, im a 16 y/o guy, and i've never had a health class (reason i'm asking.) What are some signs that a girl IS NOT pregnant? like, is her period not the same? my girlfriend is 15, and we dunno. we had sex about 3 weeks ago, and we were woried about it. she's on her period right now, but does that mean she is FOR SURE NOT PREGNATE
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A health center can help you with that question. I wish I could have been of help.
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i am about to go to this really important dinner but i have no idea how to use all those forks and spoons and stuff...which one do i use for each course? help me i rate high! (link)
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Depends on what you want to do.
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okay so i want to edit my pictures. i did it once on my old computer about last week with one of my pictures. like i want it to look really pixelated like this maybe even more pixelated>>>>
http://i9.photobucket.com/albums/a67/JessicaBurton/Photo18.jpg
is there any site i can download for this. i heaard of PhotoShop but you have to pay for it. is there anything else?
ill rate high!! (link)
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Not really
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What Andrew Lloyd Webber broadway show is the song "Tire Tracks and Broken Hearts" from? I googled it but it didn't say (link)
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Well keep searching
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Today, I was practicing for my audition, and my voice went wacko. I had to strain to sing the higher notes, and usually I can sing high notes very well. It sounded all squeaky and bad. What should I do?! Everyone says "drink tea." What does tea do? Is it just that my voice is tired, or what? I'm a little freaked out right now
Thanks
Cheyenne (link)
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Drink some water.
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i have a laptop and i have aim and when ever i leave an away up and close my laptop not shut it down but put the top down it signs me off aim does anyone know how to fix it so my away stays out ill give all 5's (link)
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Fix the settings on the keyboard.
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I want to do something fashion related in college.
What type of fashion related majors are there?
I've tried looking on some colleges websites but none of them have major lists.
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Beauty School
(Don't be a Beauty School Drop-Out.)
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ok well i dont know if this is going to sound dumb or not but i REALLY want to be a singer and i'm just wondering...how do you get a manager? and is it money (how much?)? and i just want to know where i can find one. thank you very much (link)
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You need to know that you can sing in front of people and be able to take riddicule from others.
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See my family has a lot of money but my parents don't like people to know, I think it embaress them. Anyway, a long time my mom and dad came to an agreement, my dad would pay for some things and my mom would pay for others. But lately what my mom pays for is more then my dad she runs out of her money really quickly {she's a teacher}. So lately she's been really stressed out about money, which I think it's silly because we have so much. They told me they are saving it for retiring and college for me and my sisters. But I want my mom not to worry, I mean I'm a teenager and I need stuff, not to metion the Holiday stress she has on her. Is their anyway I can help her? {Like the grocery bill is wicked high every week and she's already paying for classes for my sister.} (link)
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Well I can tell you why they don't want anyone to know. If people knew you had a crap load of money, they would try to steal it. As far as helping your mom out, I can't help you there.
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ok well i asked the question about were ic an get layouts well thanks for evryone who answered but now i found the layout i want and it doesnt work. it isnt only that on i have tryed it form other sites but the layout doesnt work can someone help me out. (link)
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It probably depends on your hard drive
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I'm 16, female, I have my learners permit. I'm getting my license in May. I have about 1500 dollars saved in the bank. Can that get me a decent car? If not how much should I spend on a used car? I would like a car by May, and I only get paid about 200 dollars a month at the MOST. please give me some advice. (link)
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Look around at what your choices are.
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ok so me & my bf had sex and we had done it once, and then like 10 mins. later again, so we had two condoms used , well when he left he tied them together and i saw them tied and there was a bunch of juice in them .. it was pretty much clear
so basically im wondering what that was since im pretty positive its not cum
ill rate 5's
thank you ! !! (link)
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Don't be so sure it was not. It could have been, but he could be on meds.
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okay, i have this mark on my boob, its like blood red and it was like a bump last night and now its not. it looks kind of like razor burn except theres to red bumps in the middle of the little red speckles. i hope thats not confusing. its gotten a little less red and it doesnt hurt. breast cancer doesnt run in my family or anything like that its just scaring me a bit.
please and thanks
p.s. PLEASE DONT TELL ME TO TALK TO A DOCTOR OR MY MOM, IF I WANTED TO I WOULDNT HAVE ASKED THIS QUESTION. and no smart asses please. (link)
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It is people like you that waste advicenators time. Don't tell us what to and what not to tell you to do. i am going to tell you right now that if you can't trust your own mom or a doctor, I dont see how you can trust a bunch of teenagers
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sorry if this is long.but i need some help fast.. ok i am 3.0 student and i am a freshman and i play basketball. i will admitted i am not the worst or the best player on the team (out of 9 people i am like 5) i got 2 coachs and the varsity one has anger mangement problems that when he gets mad he will literaly through stuff. the Jv coach( my coach) really isnt fare. i got to all pratices so up on time and listen and follow directions and thent here are other people who dont show up usually and she lets them play in the game 3 times as long as me. the last two games i was playin for 3 minutes out of 2 games wit 4 quaters of 8 minutes. now what should i do. 1) quiet.
2) talk tot he coach about it even though i am not supposed to ask about playin time
p.s. the Varsity coach as called everyone stupid, losers and sluts.
i love playin b-ball and i dont know what to do? (link)
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You need to talk to the principal about the coach.
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Well I'm a 16 year old girl.
I usually have a huge appetite and I would eat enough for about two or three people my age but for the last month I have had no appetite at all. My friends think I'm going anorexic but I'm not. I want to eat like I used to but I'm never hungry. It has been 5 weeks since I lost my appaetite and I see no signs of it coming back soon. My friends and I are getting worried because I have now lost almost 7 pounds and I was originally at the healthy weight of 124. I don't know what to do. I talked to my counselor and she told me to go to the docotr but I just went to the docotr about three weeks ago because my throat was looking really bad and hurting. She also told me to eat healthy when I do eat and for the most part I do. When I eat I usually eat like a few bites of a sandwich or a small amount of pasta or a piece of fruit. I just don't know what to do. My friends think I might be developing an eating disorder but I don't think so. (link)
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You still need to see your doctor.It dont matter if you went to see him/her yesterday. GET OFF YOUR LAZY BUTT AND GO SEE YOUR DOCTOR BEFORE IT GETS WORST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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This is a totall random question that I just thought of...Is cracking your knuckles bad for you...or is it just a rumor??? Will it make your fingers fat or whatever...just wondering because i just started getting in the habit of cracking my knuckles...let me know! thanx (link)
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Cracking your knuckles can give you arthritis later on in life when you are an old man/woman
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