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E-mail: cky_chick2679@yahoo.com
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Location: Ohio
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Age: 16
Yahoo: cky_chick2679
Member Since: December 8, 2005
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ok. well im a girl. im 14. and i wanna know how do you know when your bi, because...i think i am. cause i like girls and guys. but i dont know. cause i like guys a lil more. but im craving to make out with a girl. cause i never have. and anyways. please help me!! (link)
HAHAHAHA thats what i call BI-curius. if you have never made out with a girl then you cant' be Bi, and if there is another girl wanting to make out with you then go for it but i can't promise that your gonna like it or not.


Hey all..My parents are REALLY strict and when I say really, I mean REALLY. They wont let me go over ANY guys house, nevertheless even let me hang out with guys. But they'll let them come here but id rather not have that because I have SO many kids living in my house (7 girls, 4 boys) that we would never get privacy at all. What can I do to sneak around without getting caught? Or how could I persuade my Mom and Dad to let me hang out with boys.. (link)
My parents used to be that way to....Have a guy come meet your parents and talk to them. Living in a house with taht many kids might be crazy but just put up with it once.... and then ask your mom if you can go there and tell the guys mom to call yours and have them talk to each other about how you can go over there and if that doesn't work. then you should explain to your mom if you wanted to have sex with that dude that it would have already happend that your just friends and that you are just hangning out thats how i talked to my mom about going to guys house and she finally trusted me.


Heyy, im homescooled but about 2 or 3 months ago my parents promised they would let me go to public school..its been 2 or 3 months and, you guessed it, im still homeschooled. I wouldnt care THAT much but ive told absolutely EVERYONE in my town that im going so they all think that im going in the third quarter (even though im homeschooled alot of people know me) I dont want them to think im a liar or anything so how the hell can I persuade my parents to let me go?! (link)
okay i was homeschooled for a year to and it sucked! You need to sit down and have a conversation with your mom about going to school. You need to tell her you need to get out and make friends and have a social life because that is important for a girl in her teens. Your mom might think that you will get better education being homeschooled but you wont get educated on other things about life. and i'm pretty sure homeschooled does not have a home ec class that teaches you how to cook and clean and stuff you need to know that to. But you do need to promise your mom and dad that you will get good grades. and make sure you stick with that promise. But all you need to do is have conversation adn dont' yell cause that just makes the situation worse. talk to your mom like a grown up and explain to her how you feel.


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Me and this boy have been really close friends for a year. Now he's started hanging around the other guys, who are all jerks. They were beating up on a kid one day and it made me mad. I stood up for the kid and the boys all ended up getting in trouble by a teacher. Now my friend is mad at me because I embarrassed him in front of his friends. I was just doing what I think is right! Well, now he says he hates me and is tired of the "bull shit". I love him and I don't want to lose him but I have no idea what to do now. None of his new friends like me (they think I'm a psycho) and I feel like he cares more about what they think than he cares about me. It's really really depressing. Write back soon, please & thank you. (link)
Good job sticking up for the kid he didn't deserve that.. and your friend is just trying to be cool around his new friends and the only reason why his friends don't like you is because your better then them..... but if you insist on trying to be friends with them and this boy try talking to him about the way you feel i was 13 not to long ago and i hated it when boys and me got in fights like this but it happends because boys are boys and girls are girls they get in fights like you wouldn't believe but i think yous should write him a note or call him on the phone or tell him to meet you somewhere that way you can talk to him face to face and just tell him that you really like haning around him and enjoy being around him and if that doesn't work then you should try to get to know his friends a little better and try hanging our with them thats how i got my first boyfriend was from being aroudn his friends just try doing what he does but not as mean....if you know what i'm saying be true to your self and just be you and maybe they'll see something in you.




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