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Question Posted Wednesday December 7 2005, 10:54 pm

ok. well im a girl. im 14. and i wanna know how do you know when your bi, because...i think i am. cause i like girls and guys. but i dont know. cause i like guys a lil more. but im craving to make out with a girl. cause i never have. and anyways. please help me!!

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LEjLAXMAYAXMARiE answered Monday December 12 2005, 2:21 am:
it`s normal to WANT to make out with the opposite sex at the age you are. "everyones doing it" if you want to that bad. do it. and if you like it. i think u might be bisexual
lejla maya

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shutupnkissme98 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 7:41 pm:
your only 14...you might just be wanting to experiment...which is good. i wouldnt worry about it and give it some time...ull figure it out sooner or later.hope i helped XoXo

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xoxLoVexox answered Thursday December 8 2005, 4:02 pm:
hey. maybe you just want to hook up with girls and not date them. am i right? because the idea of it would be fun.. lol yeah i think a lot of people go through that stage so just expierement with other girls and have fun!! xoxo

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ThugGirl041790 answered Thursday December 8 2005, 2:39 pm:
This doesn`t mean your bi cuz you want to experiment with a girl.. But if you want more then making out and everything then yes hun your bisexual.. Nothin wrong with it tho.. ♥ Dez

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hco_babe answered Thursday December 8 2005, 2:16 pm:
well, lots of girls like making out with other girls. so that's just normal. but if you would want to date another girl, and guys too, then yes you're bi.

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DrMinkus answered Thursday December 8 2005, 12:49 pm:
Search with in yourself. lol Best advice I can give you. Look at a picture of a naked guy. If you get excited, your straight, look at a picture of a girl. if you don't get excited your straight. Look at picture of a guy and girl, if you get excited, your bi.

Good luck! I hope this helps.
Dr. Minkus

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independent_girl answered Thursday December 8 2005, 12:44 pm:
HAHAHAHA thats what i call BI-curius. if you have never made out with a girl then you cant' be Bi, and if there is another girl wanting to make out with you then go for it but i can't promise that your gonna like it or not.

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hoji answered Thursday December 8 2005, 12:28 pm:
don't want to get shot, but try everything you are interested in at least once.
i'm a guy and have thought about the same thing, only problem for me was i only like my own...errr... equiptment and other guy just seem incompatible. your choice to make and noone elses.
anyway, if you DO decide to try it out send me a couple of pics plz...wait ur 14....nevermind.
goodluck

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AnneNonimous answered Thursday December 8 2005, 1:01 am:
Hi There. It's common to feel confused about sex and sexuality at your age. Your hormones are churning, your body is changing, you're experimenting with things you've never tried before.

I think almost everyone has curiosity about members of the same sex in a sexual way at one time or another. There's nothing wrong with having these feelings or even acting upon them.

I had a similar phase when I was young, and I kissed a couple of girls when I was in high school. I had fun, and I liked it, but I decided it was just a phase and I'm only attracted to men.

To me, true bisexuality is a question of whether or not you could fall in LOVE, and have a real relationship with either a man or a woman. Sex is significant but real intimacy comes through a lot more than just physical contact. I just couldn't picture myself having a woman as a life partner, and so even though I've experimented I wouldn't consider myself bisexual.

My advice is to follow your feeilngs and let things happen naturally. If you decide chicks are one of the flavors you like, then great. And if not, you're no worse for the wear for hitting on one of them.

Good Luck!

Anne Nonimous

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