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i`m shy when it comes to guys and i hate to watch other girls flirting with the guy i like .. how do i overcome that kind of thing?
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just be yourself and tell a guy whats up?
guys like it for some strange reason when a chick says whats up to him.
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Pretend it was the other way around what would you want him to say to you to start a conversation? it would help if you were in this guy's class or worked with him or something. trust me I was so shy before to! maybe even more than you, and i over came it by being nice and just talking about whatever. there will come a time where you will have to hint you like him and then eventually give him your number. here ill give you the sentence i said to this guy i liked when i gave him my number
me:(while looking at his eyes) so.. do you have a pen and paper?
him:(looking through his pocket) yea here
me:(while writing my cell number down)this is because i liked talking to you so much today
him:(smiling and taking the paper) thanks
p.s. he called me the same day and asked me out! so yea that line totally worked for me. the key is you have to be mysterious. act like you kind of have interest in him but not so much ok and you'll be fine
hope this helped!
syireen
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You'll probably never overcome that feeling; it's the way life goes, and the truth is that all girls get jealous.
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we're animals, with fighting instinct. girls fight for their top men. in which case you're a lesbian
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Talk to guys more often.
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i myself, am just like you. i sometimes have that problem but i try to think about what i want to say to them and try to be brave about it. sometimes you just have to overcome a fear but trampling it.
you know you love me,
gossip girl
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Well, i'm like that too.. well, i was like that.. but this is what i did and i hope it helps!
*If he was in my class, and sitting somewhat next to me, i would ask him a question about the subject we're learning or ask him what he thinks.
*I know this sounds cheesy but once you start a spark of conversation with him, then you can gradually talk to him more and if you like him, the flirting will just come smoothly.
*If your friend is the one flirting with him, or if you usually talk to the girl, you can (and only if you trust her), ask her to introduce you guys. Even just walk up to them and talk to your friend, then just join in the convo.
*All in all, if you like the guy, talk to him! Whats the worst that can happen. If i did it, so can you, hun!! You're probably really nice and the guy will probably totally dig you! You just need to be yourself!!!
I hope I helped:D
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