ok, so just yesterday, 2 of my friends got in this big fight over something really stupid, & they said things that didnt need to be said or brought up, & didnt have anything to do with what they were fighting about in the first place!! & then one of the brought me into it, & got one of my friends to think that I talked crap about her, when I really dont!! I mean, they are both my friends, & I dont want them to not be friends because of this, because then I would have to choose. & one of my friends dropped the whole thing, as did I, but my other friend is still mad @ her. I mean, i can see why, but i just want her to drop it!! how can I convince her that its all over?!? please help..
BRE111992 answered Sunday December 18 2005, 10:19 am: you can talk to her privatly and tell her that this is redicuals or if she still is being stubern no effence then its really hard i know drop her like last months shoes I know thats a little harsh but people like that will get mad over stupid things like that all the time and you will be stuck in fights all the time. [ BRE111992's advice column | Ask BRE111992 A Question ]
Kyky answered Saturday December 17 2005, 12:41 am: Ok, calm down lol. Dont worry, Ive been in worse.
You just need to talk to them, all in a group and try to work things out. You cant blow a good friendship for a little misunderstanding.
Just try to talk it out with them. See how it goes. If that doesn't work, then give it some time. Eventually it will blow over. Dont stress about it.
Hope this helped! [ Kyky's advice column | Ask Kyky A Question ]
lalathepinkbunny answered Friday December 16 2005, 1:27 pm: well, just tell your friend that you aren't comfortable with her talking about your other friend to you and tell her that its over and its not a big deal and just ask her to talk to your other friend and maybe she'll get over it. [ lalathepinkbunny's advice column | Ask lalathepinkbunny A Question ]
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