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My brother thinks I'm a slut
Since last year, my brother has been extremely protective over me with guys. I didn't know what caused him to suddenly change until his best friend told me that ht thinks that I'm a slut.
Apparently there was a rumor running around school last year that I did not know about.
I can't live with my brother thinking that about me it's really weird. The other day he had some of his friends over and I was hanging out with them because I was bored and they were talking about sex and stuff. One of his friends asked me if I'm a virgin. I said yes and that I've only made out with guys (which is true).
So, with that I thought that I had taken care of what he's heard of me and that he then knew that I'm not a slut. But, it didn't help. He didn't believe what I said!
How can I make it clear to him that I'm not?
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rumors will pass.. talk to your brother in private about it [ without his friends around ] && tell him that your honestly not a slut && you have only made out with guys before. hes your brother so he'll probably believe you. good luck.
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hun, dont stress about it. ppl are stupid and start crap because they have nothing better to do. if you believe in what is the truth, then it will turn out to be good in the end. if you go along with the rumor, you will get sucked into all the drama and have to deal with it. you may just want to sit and talk to your brother and just tell him flat out. it helps. dont keep it all inside of you, because its not good. i hope this helps. just try talking to him, thats what i do with my brother when i have an if so problem. -Kylie.
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have your guy friends (or boyfriends) over and let your brother see that you're not a slut. once he sees you with other guys and you're not doing what he thinks you're doing, he'll probably stop thinking that.
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Ask him what he heard about you last year and ask him if he honestly thinks you're like that. If he says he doesn't know if it's true or not then tell him that whatever you said the other night about just making out is what is true. Tell him that whatever he decides to believe is his choice but why would you go this far to lie to him about it?
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Go up to him and say "Whatever rumor you heard about me last year- was not true. And Id like to trust me enough to know its not" Let him know directly.
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