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3 more years
today my dad and i had another fight and im loseing it. i cant seem to bear life in my house any more. i hate my dad and i cant live with him any more but i have 3 more years left to go. how do i keep from breaking down for good?
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well i am not really shore cause my dad is the same way and i have tried to run away and planning to try it again. and well i am looking for advice like that too cause i have only 4 years left
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Go out with your good friends as much as possible. It will leave you with less time with your dad. And stay in your room a lot, unless you have to come out for food or bathroom. And whenever you feel really bad about him, listen to your favorite music. And dont worry, 3 years will fly by like that *snaps finger*
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Hi, I'm Melissa, and I know exactly how you feel. Lol, I sound like I'm at therapy. But honestly.. you CAN deal. Spend as much time AWAY as you possibly can. Do things to avoid him as much as possible.
If you can IM me (xi3ee) I can actually tell you in more detail, I'd rather the whole world not know my problems. So IM me sometime.. (=
♥ Melissa
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ok, ha. parents cause stress thats for sure. but have you ever thought that maybe he is going through the same thing? Your parents are only on this planet for so long. when you feel you might fight with him, try to work around it. your parents love you. dont say you hate him/them. they are always their for you, because if they werent they wouldnt be doing their job as parents. dont wish your time away and say you cant wait to get out of your house. because if and when you do, you might wish you hadnt. just try to work around and and appreciate the time you have with him. some kids dont have parents or their parents abuse them. people have it way worse than you. so, please try to make the best out of a bad situation.
<3 lots.
-Kylie.
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Me and my dad fight over every thing seriously.. what you say sounds exactly like me and my dad what i try to do is walk away from him but i have problems doing htat because i argue way to much and yea i just go crazy. umm what to do is try to just walk away from him avoid him as much as possible and when your old enough 3 years i guess move thats what i plan on doing but in like 10 months ..
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sorry to hear that. i think you juss have to stick it out & respect your dad as much as possible. you probably don't want to right now, but you don't want things to be rocky in the future. let him blow up at you if he wants to. he'll look like a complete fool if he's being mean & yelling at you & you're juss standing there taking it. he'll eventually stop. you can't break down from it. if you flip out back, er first, he's winning in the argument. keep your cool, stay calm. if you really can't take it, politely walk away & blow up in your room. he'll realize what he's doing. you can't have a continous argument going with your father, i mean yes maybe he's a complete jerk idk, but he is your father. juss try to relax & do other things to stay out've his way if you can. maybe stay at friends houses on weekends & go out if he lets you.
-hope that helped!♥
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Hey,
I know exactly how you feel. I have the same problem only it's with my mom.
Me and her fight constantly and it's just awful.
I always start losing my temper which gets me in deeper trouble.
Me and her actually got into a fight today and it keeps getting more worse.
I learned you can't really do anything about it except just live with it and ignore it.
I know it's not easy but you have to hang in there.
Try talking to your dad even though that hasn't helped me with my mom it just turns into another fight.
Hang in there hun and if you need anything else drop one in my inbox ♥
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