Question Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 1:14 pm
I want to know what I should do! ok there is this guy on my bus, at my school and is kinda of my neighbor. I liked him when I first moved at the school in 5th grade and mow I am in 7th grade and I like him still I used to flirt with him all the time and he used to sit with me on the bus and last year I heard around this time I was told that he liked me my brother is always hanging out with him and my brother asked if he liked me and he said that he thiught I was pretty and he thought I was boring and dont flirt any more but he wants to make out with me and stuff like that I dont get it ? he comes to my house all the time and my parents keep on joking around that he is using my brothe to see me but he goes out and plays and snow boards but my dad wont let me out and play and mow he thinks im boring well i think he is write and at least I could do is flirt with him more I have like once and that was yesterday and he got glassess and i told him that he looked really hot in those and then I thought that was corny so I want to do better my brother keeps on telling me that I need a b/f and I never had one before so I need one before my little brother gets one and he is only 10 my sis got on e befor I did and she is in 6th grade and I know now that I need one so my ? isa how should I flirt with him to start a conversation? I will give everyone a 5 if you answer this long ?.
WE_L0St_0UR_hEAdSx answered Saturday December 17 2005, 7:41 pm: honestly, because you are in 7th grade, things like having a boyfriend may seem really important to you and i am not going to waste my time telling you you're wrong because it wont make any difference. when EVERYONE else seems to have a relationship, even your younger family members, it would be stressful. but really, if they are what, 10 and 12, how real are these little flings they are part of. sure, on rare occasions, jr. high relationships last, but i think it's better to wait until the guys are a bit more mature. i've been together with my boyfriend since the bginning of 8th grade (last year), he's my age but he is also much more mature than the other guys my age. and i also know for a fact he isn't going around saying oh yeah i don't like her i just want to make out with her. you shouldn't worry about this kid if he's saying crap like "oh i don't like her she's boring but i want to make out with her" because that's bull. no guy who says stuff like that is worth it. find someone better than him, because trust me, there's comeone out there for everyone. and to flirt, which i also have a large amount of experience in, just smile a lot and flip your hair around. stand close to the guy, if he says something funny, playfully hit him and say something like oh stop it, just corny stuff like that is great as long as you're not too obvious about it. ♥ [ WE_L0St_0UR_hEAdSx's advice column | Ask WE_L0St_0UR_hEAdSx A Question ]
hershikissescanhelp answered Saturday December 17 2005, 7:01 pm: if you really really really do like this guy then get to know him a little better. go somewhere with him, like a skating rink or the movies, or just some place to chill out. and if you think your boring then get on the wild side a bit. start being a mystery instead of a book. that means just be like a questioning kind of person. don't let him see you as some rag. if he doesn't want to get with you then just know that there's alwayz going 2 be someone out there 4 u. better yet,just stay friends with him 4 now then if he reconsiders getting with you then say YES!!! thanx 4 writing!!!!
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