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ok. You know how people say kissing comes naturally? well the first time i made out i had no idea what to do.. it was not natural at all. Like i didnt know what to do with my tounge when his was in my mouth. and when i put mine in his mouth, what do i do?
14/f sorry if its a dumb question.
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it's not a dumb question, you're curious. a lot of people have awkward first times.. my friends have loads fo stories. one, her boyfriend bit her lip. another, slobber everywhere. another, made weird body motions and everyone who saw made fun of her for it. it's okay if the first time isn't great, or even the second. i know that every guy is different too. maybe you two had different ideas as to what to do, and maybe the next guy you make out with will have the same idea as you. maybe not. it all depends. and if you are comfortable enough with the guy you're with, talk about it before. that's what i did my first time. neither of us had ever made out with anyone before and we were both nervous, but talking made it easier.. just being comfortable about it took a huge load off of it. and the fact that i knew oh, if i suck at it, he wont break up with me-we'll just practice ;] made it better. just talk to the guy you're with about it, ask him what he likes, what he doesn't like: i personally dislike slobber, when the guy holds back, when the guys mouth isn't open enough, and stuff like that. just make sure you brushed your teeth or your breath doesn't smell or anything, that's bad. don't just leave your arms doing nothing either. hold him, play with his hair, stroke his cheek gently, play nice =]
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Hm..it's kind of a hard question to describe. It normally is natural...and it isn't a stupid question.
Hm...let him lead, he should move towards you his head cocked to one side, you move towards him your head to the other side. Once your lips connect, wait a second to let that settle in. Pull back and lick your lips to moisten them, but dont pull back to far, stay close enough to where he can practically feel you lick your lips. When you move back into him, lift your hand to his cheek, either one. This gives a sence of ownership...and or intimacy. It shows you want him to be where he is. Lightly press your tongue against his lips, not to hard but let him know you want to enter his mouth. If he doesn't get the signal place your tongue back in your own mouth, if he does get the hint his mouth should open to you, which in turn his tongue would come out. Make sure your tongue does the opposite of his, it will cause kind of like a wrestling match, but always let ya'lls tongues touch. You should pull back every now and then, so the pattern doesn't get old. Try new things...it never hurts to be open to any sort of kissing. Nibble on his lip, lick his lips, kiss alone his jaw line and such
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I hope I helped.
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so you should be sorry - there are loads of things that you can do and why ask here when you can find out on the internet.
how about this:
with your cute guy, kiss him with your body pushed into his and then suddenly push him away and day "your bad!". let him stand stunned for a few secs then when he least expects go for him and kiss his lips hard and passionately, then swing your face round to theother side of his nose while swiping your tongue all the way round his lips; clockwise as a guide, then striaght in to his mouth with a stiff firm touge sliding at the top. then the posibilities are endless. do the alphabet or numbers with your tongue on the top of his mouth, or push your tongue right back into his throat and rolling it up to quickly breash cool air into it is arousing 4 him too (but takes practice as ive found!)
remember to give him a firm tonguing, cuz then heel be gagging for a firm one on his firm one downstairs 2 lol!
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wow after looking through about 674275745689235964592386594759 questions i've decided only girls use this thing lol
anyway to your question....join the club i don't have a effin clue on what to do and im a 14 year old guy so uhhh....have fun with it?? i don't know lol
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I don't know how much good it will do you but why don't you give this site a try. Can't hurt! :)
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