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Last Update: December 15, 2005
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Basically, in the last 6 or seven months I've lost abut 10.5 pounds/three quarters of a stone just through cutting down on certain foods and running. I've never stopped eating completely although there were certain times where I ate minimally and may have not eaten quite enough. I didn't really need to lose the weight in the first place I just had some puppy fat but now i am much skinner (48.7kg/7.6 stone/107 pounds)and generally happier. My only concern is that I may have stunted my growth through this. I am 15 years old and 5 ft 4 inches. Is this likely? x x x (link)
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im being genuine here when i say i have a friend who is now 5'8" barefoot and nearly 17 who was only 5'2" when he was 15. i should know because i helped measure both times (first in GCSE statistics for coursework and in AS Biology for BMI) its like hez been streached! But i aint seen the same 4 girls so if your the latter gender i cant promise anything.
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how do you know for sure you are ready to have sex? (link)
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hey, ive noticed you give pretty good advice so im asking ya a question. i just read your advice for that girl who wanted to make out and she was 15. so do you think 13 is a pathtic age to not have made out yet? bc im 13/f and i havnt yet, i mean people have tryed but i turned them down bc i didnt like them. so what do you think? j/w. (link)
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how many people know this? not many except you and me (but i won't say anything if you don't) and 13 is more than 700 whoppin days of opportunity less than 15 so you've nothing to feel pathetic about.
infact, looking at you're past of being 'tryed by many people' and you turning them down has actually had a better effect on your status than you think. it shows that you know your special and won't just kiss any desperate loser, which is why people keep coming and trying because it would be a real achievement to them when they do - snogging is highly overrated and most of the thrill comes from knowing the person your actually snogging with (status) and you sound like the hot desireable type that fulfills the lads criteria.
so be confident and strong in yourself as thats what turns the guys on most - those who make out then get one in the oven are those who are less confident in themselves and feel they have to do that stuff to feel 'part of the crowd'.
believe me, 13 is prime for snogging, but a crime for shagging =D
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how on earth do you make out???
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seriously you must be taking the piss.
your 15 right?
ok enough shit, ill be a 'nice' boy and tell you what i do.
actually no i won't, cuz your a geek and i hate geeks
no really im sorry, just can't believe the situation really
your 15 and no snog. let alone screw
it should be a crime.
ne way there are loads of things that you can do and why ask here when you can find out on the internet.
how about this:
with your cute guy, kiss him with your body pushed into his and then suddenly push him away and day "your bad!". let him stand stunned for a few secs then when he least expects go for him and kiss his lips hard and passionately, then swing your face round to theother side of his nose while swiping your tongue all the way round his lips; clockwise as a guide, then striaght in to his mouth with a stiff firm touge sliding at the top. then the posibilities are endless. do the alphabet or numbers with your tongue on the top of his mouth, or push your tongue right back into his throat and rolling it up to quickly breash cool air into it is arousing 4 him too (but takes practice as ive found!)
remember to give him a firm tonguing, cuz then heel be gagging for a firm one on his firm one downstairs 2 lol!
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I'm going to a party tomorrow night and I'm getting quite worried about it.
There's this guy going who I don't talk to that much...but I've been to parties with him there before. Twice. And both times I ended up getting with him under the influence of a substantial amount of alcohol.
And I seriously don't want to do it again, but I don't want it to stop me from having fun...and I just don't know if I want to go any more, but its my best friend's birthday!
I'm pretty damn certain he'll try it on again if he gets the chance, so my question is how can I try and make sure he doesn't try it on? And if worse comes to worse how can I get rid of him without making things awkward for the other people at the party?
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how many people know about this stalking loser? you have to make sure that as many people know about such a desperate stalker he is so that he is the one feeling intinmidated at your friends party and not you. if plenty people know is pathetic ways as possible at the party, then he will back off from you to save further embaressment.
i hope that helps and all the best for the party!
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Guys- What way do you all liked to be asked out? From the girls friend, the girl? What I was wanting to ask this guy out and I am having my friend to. (link)
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i definately think that getting a friend to do it is pathetic and gives him the impression of a shy loser. im sorry but guys HATE shy incofident girls.
To be honest you don't need to risk (embaressing?) yourself by walking to them and asking them out out of the blue!
No the shock to the boy would be the natural instict to decline you, even if he regrets it later.
first catch the eye of the guy and flirt with him. flirt flirt flirt and see how he responds.
if he flirts back then he likes you and you can then make your move. if he turns away or ignores you or shows little interest then forget it.
so if he does flirt back....
Show your confidence by breathing in the highteyn your posture and look presentable and impressive (its what models do when posing for photos) and approach (victim) with a calm relaxed pace, because your body language here is miles more important than what you say (boys are very turned on by looks and body language, as im sure you would have noticed!) and heres the no loss implied line you say:
'(name) if your gonna be so hot and flirty with me you could have at least done you hair a bit better!
So what are your plans for tomorrow?'
(let him respond with his crappy plans)
then say 'well on (day) im going to (place). if you wanna join me then you may, if you don't then its just your loss - you can just go and do...(MOCK what his petty plans are to make him feel bad)..instead'
this makes you the one in control of the situation so he is less likely to decline.
even if he does decline you can then snap back with 'PUFF' and turn shaprly away with disgust - showing no remorse for what you said. that should put him down and make him think twice about you.
he may even come crawling back to you later, so say;
'well i was going to have the time to myself, but as your so desperate for me ill give you one last chance'
hope that sorts things out with your crush!
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ok. You know how people say kissing comes naturally? well the first time i made out i had no idea what to do.. it was not natural at all. Like i didnt know what to do with my tounge when his was in my mouth. and when i put mine in his mouth, what do i do?
14/f sorry if its a dumb question. (link)
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so you should be sorry - there are loads of things that you can do and why ask here when you can find out on the internet.
how about this:
with your cute guy, kiss him with your body pushed into his and then suddenly push him away and day "your bad!". let him stand stunned for a few secs then when he least expects go for him and kiss his lips hard and passionately, then swing your face round to theother side of his nose while swiping your tongue all the way round his lips; clockwise as a guide, then striaght in to his mouth with a stiff firm touge sliding at the top. then the posibilities are endless. do the alphabet or numbers with your tongue on the top of his mouth, or push your tongue right back into his throat and rolling it up to quickly breash cool air into it is arousing 4 him too (but takes practice as ive found!)
remember to give him a firm tonguing, cuz then heel be gagging for a firm one on his firm one downstairs 2 lol!
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ok my homecoming is this weekend and there is this one boy i really want to dance with but is it weird for the girl to ask the guy... i dont really kno because i have never asked anyone to dance with me before.. (link)
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flirt with him, then ask him the ask you - "well what you just staring at me for, aren't you gonna ask me to dance of what?"
or even better keep hinting at the posibility like:
"you know, one of your friends just told me your a smooth dancer and i wanna confirm that"
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okay well, im with this kid right name he is 14 and i am 16, well he tells me he loves me and everything, but i have noticed that i dont feel teh same way. i thought i did but i dont, before we got together i use to like this kid we can call him mp, well me n him still talk but he keeps goin back to his X and i see him everyday at lunch, when he walks by i see him lookin at me out of the corner of him eye, is that a good thing?? anyideas on how i might be able to get him to hang out with me and should i break it off with the other kid since i dont have the same feelings about him?? AND on top of all this there is a kid that likes me, i talk to him all the time and he tells me he loves me TOO!! i see him everyday at lunch b/c he sits at our table im not sure what to do, should i just break up with the kid im with and stay single till i sort things out or what?? and ideas please ill rate high...
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so someone 2 years below you thats very likely to be searching for his first screw (sad, but very probably true) is giving all the signs of desperation. There's little wonder that the instinct of human nature inside you is saying no. And that's not a bad thing. there's no point in going out with him, because there is nothing he can do that will make you change the way you feel towards him. You have affection for him but not attraction for him. the more you leave it and not be straight with him about the way u feel towards him, the more attracted he will become, hence the more pain he will feel. You have to tell him calmly, and straight NOW. People have affection for their friends, and that's exactly what you two are, and what he needs to realise is what you will only ever be.
and as for the other guy that says he loves you, well if you like him (you didn't say in the question whether you liked him or not) then don't tell him straight, stand your ground and say something like 'im going (place) on (day). if you'd like to join me then you may, if you don't then it's just your loss' so that he knows your in control of the ask you out situation, not the 'will you go out with me?' which is wussy and pathetic and puts you as low as him.
and if you don't like him, well its gonna be the same strat as before don#'t you think.
the other boy which you like obviously like you, cuz he is clearly trying to get your attention. The rollercoaster he is having with his ex is don't him no favours, and he knows that which is why hes after you. So here's your chance to shine.
SHOW you like him too, DON'T just go up and tell him u like him, as that can be shocking and the natural instict is to turn you down, even if he regrets later:
When you catch his eye again, flirt with him.
flirting with him will allow you to see if he really likes you or not. If he ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then he's not interested in you. But if he flirts
back, he wants you!
Good Luck and i hope these ammendments have helped!
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This guy at school called me a b**** and I was with my friend who happens to be a guy and he fought him but the principle came and they both got suspended. When they were allowed back in school today I told my friend he didn't have to do that, but he said he did it for me and could'nt stand what that guy did to me, then after school he asked me out and told me that he's always like me, I didn't answer him I just said I had to go and kind of ran off. He's a really good friend and I don't want to rruin our friendship, but I think I may like him. I mean we go places and hang out and stuff but I have never considered us more than friends.
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let me just say that your so lucky. This guy is desperate 4 you, and ur insticts can smell it. thats why you ran away.
remember your 100% in control at the moment, but leave it a while and he will get the hump and pick up someone else. Thats why im not saying don't go out with him.
DO.
That way yo will stay in control of him so he is something 2 play with while ur together: Act unpredicatble, like suddenly holding his hand and then backing off, saying its too early, and stuff like saying "ur a great friend" and shortly after passionately kissing him.
That's way he'll be confused over where he and you stand, so he's be thinking about you almost all the time, keep it up and he will literally fall head over heels 4 you (metaphorically speaking he already has!).
mocking him is another way of saying "i know what i worth and your going to have to work for it". that should make him desire you even more.
Now, start with the response to going out with him.
keep that not bothered, controlling attitude like:
"hi (name) im going to (where you would like 2 go) on (day your going). if you wanna join me then you may, if you don't then we both know whose loss it is"
this shows that you the big opportunity 2 him, and that your not really bothered if he declines, because you know how he feels towards you thus in control.
and there's nothing 2 stop you from saying it 2 someone you really fancy!
i hope this pile of words makes sense 4 you. if it doesn't then that just tough :)
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Do females find guys with ape like hairy chests sexy? (link)
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You've been watching too much Austin Powers sonny jim!!! No u will find that girls are much more interested in the MANLY personality inside - teasing them, being unpredictable and difficult in a cocky/funny way will trigger the sexy chemistry and attraction between u and that hot chick than a bit of man hair.
if uv'e got a hairy chest then its no big deal im afraid - intriguing and perhaps humourous 4 da other half, but thats about it.
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