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Ask a guy Out?
Guys- What way do you all liked to be asked out? From the girls friend, the girl? What I was wanting to ask this guy out and I am having my friend to.
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Crush Hottie
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i think you should ask the guy out yourself. if you get your friend to do that just means your shy and scared to do it. you should prove to the guy that you are brave, outgoing,and strong. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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Don't have your friend do it! It makes the guy think that you aren't mature enough to go up face-to-face with him. The guy will think it might be a joke if a friend tells him, and he'll probably say no. Pick a good day and start talking! Soon, the convo will start to get into more personal issues, and then, you can tell him you like him and ask him out! Just do it! It works well.
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I garentee you he will probably reject you if you had your friend do it. For alot of guys, it's a turn off when the girls friend does it instead of the girl. Asking him out yourself shows you are CONFIDENT. Guys like confident girls. Alot of them find it sexy.
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don't have your friend do it for you! becuase then he will think your a shy little girl thats too shy to talk to the person you luv. i had a girl give me a luv note and i thought that was cool since we didn't have time to talk, but if you do have time then actually TALK to him.
THIS IS ALL COMING FROM A GUY.
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I personally would have the girl ask me out. My preference I suppose, but I like it when a chick is straight up with me. I dont like third parties involved within a relationship. My girlfriend asked me out, and were still going on four months strong. I hope that helps and good luck.
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i definately think that getting a friend to do it is pathetic and gives him the impression of a shy loser. im sorry but guys HATE shy incofident girls.
To be honest you don't need to risk (embaressing?) yourself by walking to them and asking them out out of the blue!
No the shock to the boy would be the natural instict to decline you, even if he regrets it later.
first catch the eye of the guy and flirt with him. flirt flirt flirt and see how he responds.
if he flirts back then he likes you and you can then make your move. if he turns away or ignores you or shows little interest then forget it.
so if he does flirt back....
Show your confidence by breathing in the highteyn your posture and look presentable and impressive (its what models do when posing for photos) and approach (victim) with a calm relaxed pace, because your body language here is miles more important than what you say (boys are very turned on by looks and body language, as im sure you would have noticed!) and heres the no loss implied line you say:
'(name) if your gonna be so hot and flirty with me you could have at least done you hair a bit better!
So what are your plans for tomorrow?'
(let him respond with his crappy plans)
then say 'well on (day) im going to (place). if you wanna join me then you may, if you don't then its just your loss - you can just go and do...(MOCK what his petty plans are to make him feel bad)..instead'
this makes you the one in control of the situation so he is less likely to decline.
even if he does decline you can then snap back with 'PUFF' and turn shaprly away with disgust - showing no remorse for what you said. that should put him down and make him think twice about you.
he may even come crawling back to you later, so say;
'well i was going to have the time to myself, but as your so desperate for me ill give you one last chance'
hope that sorts things out with your crush!
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I'm not a guy but I heard that guys like it when you do it, when a friend does it it makes you look kinda like a baby.
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