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I'm going to a party tomorrow night and I'm getting quite worried about it.
There's this guy going who I don't talk to that much...but I've been to parties with him there before. Twice. And both times I ended up getting with him under the influence of a substantial amount of alcohol.
And I seriously don't want to do it again, but I don't want it to stop me from having fun...and I just don't know if I want to go any more, but its my best friend's birthday!
I'm pretty damn certain he'll try it on again if he gets the chance, so my question is how can I try and make sure he doesn't try it on? And if worse comes to worse how can I get rid of him without making things awkward for the other people at the party?
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If you are really worried then maybe you shouldn't go to the party
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wowo well stay away from him. go have fun and stick with your friends! theyve got your back!
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You don't have to drink to have a good time. You will do something that you will regret if you keep it up. Just tell him that you don't like him like that if you do drink and go towards your friends where he won't be able to put moves on you or whatever. Good luck
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ok well this is all abou tyour friend....you cant miss the party becuase of a guy! if he comes near you walk away and stick with your freinds they will support you! i no you can do it! i t may be tough but in the end youll feel bettter! wish you luck!
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Hey, sup?? Well your situation is a little tight but I think I know what you should do. Try not drinking at the party because the more you drink the more you become influnced by the alchol, that way you can stay in control of yourself. If he tries to kiss you/ w.e. than you should just politely smile and hint that "I'm sorry but you were only a one time thing." Another idea would be go to you bff b-day party with a guy. That way when this other guy see's that you have a guy on you, he'll know to back off. If you can't do either than I would just try to stay clear of him all night and try to keep busy by talking to a variety of people. Don't let one guy ruin your entire night. Have fun and relax..I'm sure everything will go smoothly. Xo> Rate me!
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I am going to be SO very blunt, so don't take it personally.
Try maybe NOT drinking? People do really stupid shit under the influence. Avoid the alcohol if you don't want to wind up "getting with him"
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If he offers you a drink just say no thanks,if he still insists then just keep saying that you are just not thirsty.Make sure you don't see anything suspicous of what this guy is planning to do,also try avoiding him if you have to. To get rid of him you could have someone like a girl to talk to him so he would leave you alone,also try convincing them to go out somewhere where they could talk comfortably.
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Well first i think you should limit you're alcohol intake, because we both know guys see you as an easy target when you're drunk, then if he approaches you just say...this is my friend's b-day and this night is all about pleasing her so not tonight! Just be straight forward and strong...don't come off as if you're considering it..and it would also help if you didn't flirt with him! good luck and have fun!
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look if you do not drink their is a huge chance you might not wake up with him. if you can not stay away from alcohol you might just have to tell straight up but not so the party will be effected by and tri to have a good time!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ps have fun HawttxParadise
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how many people know about this stalking loser? you have to make sure that as many people know about such a desperate stalker he is so that he is the one feeling intinmidated at your friends party and not you. if plenty people know is pathetic ways as possible at the party, then he will back off from you to save further embaressment.
i hope that helps and all the best for the party!
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