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what should i do?
okay well, im with this kid right name he is 14 and i am 16, well he tells me he loves me and everything, but i have noticed that i dont feel teh same way. i thought i did but i dont, before we got together i use to like this kid we can call him mp, well me n him still talk but he keeps goin back to his X and i see him everyday at lunch, when he walks by i see him lookin at me out of the corner of him eye, is that a good thing?? anyideas on how i might be able to get him to hang out with me and should i break it off with the other kid since i dont have the same feelings about him?? AND on top of all this there is a kid that likes me, i talk to him all the time and he tells me he loves me TOO!! i see him everyday at lunch b/c he sits at our table im not sure what to do, should i just break up with the kid im with and stay single till i sort things out or what?? and ideas please ill rate high...
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so someone 2 years below you thats very likely to be searching for his first screw (sad, but very probably true) is giving all the signs of desperation. There's little wonder that the instinct of human nature inside you is saying no. And that's not a bad thing. there's no point in going out with him, because there is nothing he can do that will make you change the way you feel towards him. You have affection for him but not attraction for him. the more you leave it and not be straight with him about the way u feel towards him, the more attracted he will become, hence the more pain he will feel. You have to tell him calmly, and straight NOW. People have affection for their friends, and that's exactly what you two are, and what he needs to realise is what you will only ever be.
and as for the other guy that says he loves you, well if you like him (you didn't say in the question whether you liked him or not) then don't tell him straight, stand your ground and say something like 'im going (place) on (day). if you'd like to join me then you may, if you don't then it's just your loss' so that he knows your in control of the ask you out situation, not the 'will you go out with me?' which is wussy and pathetic and puts you as low as him.
and if you don't like him, well its gonna be the same strat as before don#'t you think.
the other boy which you like obviously like you, cuz he is clearly trying to get your attention. The rollercoaster he is having with his ex is don't him no favours, and he knows that which is why hes after you. So here's your chance to shine.
SHOW you like him too, DON'T just go up and tell him u like him, as that can be shocking and the natural instict is to turn you down, even if he regrets later:
When you catch his eye again, flirt with him.
flirting with him will allow you to see if he really likes you or not. If he ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then he's not interested in you. But if he flirts
back, he wants you!
Good Luck and i hope these ammendments have helped!
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