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My friend wants to be more than my friend
This guy at school called me a b**** and I was with my friend who happens to be a guy and he fought him but the principle came and they both got suspended. When they were allowed back in school today I told my friend he didn't have to do that, but he said he did it for me and could'nt stand what that guy did to me, then after school he asked me out and told me that he's always like me, I didn't answer him I just said I had to go and kind of ran off. He's a really good friend and I don't want to rruin our friendship, but I think I may like him. I mean we go places and hang out and stuff but I have never considered us more than friends.
PLEASE HELP ! I rate 5's
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ok well i think you guys should go out since both of you like each other. if you r realli good friends ull stai friends after da break up.
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well wow...what ever you choose i am sure it will work out but...he seems like a really nice guy, and he sticks up for you ( enogh to get suspended!) and he will support you so i think it wouldnt be a bad idea to say yes. wow well what ever you choose will come from your heart
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Hmm... it's rather sweet what he did... Most guys wouldn't do that.
What you need to do, is seriously think about whether or not you like him as more than friends... because right now, keeping him waiting, is just hurting him... Can you see yourself going out with him?? If you can't, chances are... then no, y'all shouldn't date... but if you can, take the chance. If y'all are as good of friends as you say you are, then chances are, if y'all break up, y'all can regain that friendship back.
good luck.
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let me just say that your so lucky. This guy is desperate 4 you, and ur insticts can smell it. thats why you ran away.
remember your 100% in control at the moment, but leave it a while and he will get the hump and pick up someone else. Thats why im not saying don't go out with him.
DO.
That way yo will stay in control of him so he is something 2 play with while ur together: Act unpredicatble, like suddenly holding his hand and then backing off, saying its too early, and stuff like saying "ur a great friend" and shortly after passionately kissing him.
That's way he'll be confused over where he and you stand, so he's be thinking about you almost all the time, keep it up and he will literally fall head over heels 4 you (metaphorically speaking he already has!).
mocking him is another way of saying "i know what i worth and your going to have to work for it". that should make him desire you even more.
Now, start with the response to going out with him.
keep that not bothered, controlling attitude like:
"hi (name) im going to (where you would like 2 go) on (day your going). if you wanna join me then you may, if you don't then we both know whose loss it is"
this shows that you the big opportunity 2 him, and that your not really bothered if he declines, because you know how he feels towards you thus in control.
and there's nothing 2 stop you from saying it 2 someone you really fancy!
i hope this pile of words makes sense 4 you. if it doesn't then that just tough :)
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Tell him next time you see him first apoligize, then tell him that you DO wanna go out, but maybe this time as friends. Be sure to let him know, MAYBE next time you can be more than friends...
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What the hell??? That guy stood up for you, and you run away from him?!? I hope he ends up dating the hottest cheerleader in your school just to spite you. I know I would.
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I think that you should consider going out with him because if he looks out for you when you are just friends then that means that he will protect you even more if you went out and besides you said that you like so why not go out with him you might like being more then friends. I hope that I helped but if not you can can visit me at my column.
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