Question Posted Thursday September 22 2005, 10:27 pm
ok.. there's my exboyfriend, Nick. and we went out for a pretty long time.. and we broke up because we never say eachother.. now i c him all the time and he still really likes me.. and i kinda still like him. but i like other people 2! and wen ever i go out wit ne1 he freaks out and says i hate him n that i put other people be4 him.. and i care cuz he's a really close friend.. i just got a newbf n nick's upset. wat do i do. so what do i do? please helf!
xoxo
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Belladonna answered Friday September 23 2005, 4:14 am: It's nice that you care so much about your ex, but you've gotta do what makes YOU happy. Don't just do what HE wants so you don't hurt him. He needs to accept that the relationship is over now and stop getting upset when you go for other guys. Explain to him that you still care about him deeply, but not in that way anymore and you hope that you two can remain friends still. Say it gently, but be forceful. He needs to get the message, so hopefully he'll leave you alone and go for someone else.
SoInToYoUx0x answered Friday September 23 2005, 1:11 am: it seems like you care a lot about your ex.. (sadly i dont but that is bc HE cheated on me but anyways this is about you..lol.) you need to get your mind striaght. if you still like the guy then mayb you guys should give it another chance. if nto you need to talk to him and tell him he needs to get over you and that he shouldnt hold you back from dating who ever you want to date. hope this helps.
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xxmymatrixmanxx answered Friday September 23 2005, 12:53 am: well- first you gotta decide who you like. If you like them both, you obviously dont wanna tell nick its over, because then you cant really get him back. if you want nick, he obviously already likes you. If you choose your other bf, then just tell nick its over. You broke up- the concept of break up means- no longer together. just tell him something to nicely let him know that its over :)
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