Question Posted Saturday November 26 2005, 4:32 pm
i am madly in love with this boy who is in 7th grade. i am in 8th grade so it would be werid dating down. i have only had 1 serious boyfriend so far. i am pretty sure that they boy i like likes me too. my parents don't like this guy because they say he's too immature. he is totally hott, really sweet, and just amazing. my parents have judged him wrong. i have one class with him and i catch him watching me across the room and i see him watching me during lunch too. we both go to a very small (less than 900 students) school so we see eachother a lot. i do not want to ask him out, but i may end up having to! he is really good friends with several girls but they are just friends. they are cheerleaders and he plays football. i play sports too but cheerleaders are automatically "in" so i have competition. what should i do? i need help asap! should i ask him out? wait on him to ask me? just let it rest a while? HELP!
Additional info, added Saturday November 26 2005, 5:04 pm: he is single but probably a lot more "expereinced" than me. i DO NOT want to go all the way. i am 14 and i have never even hugged another much less held hands or kissed a guy. i didn't get interested in guys until last year. and my parents think i am too young to date and didn't support me and my ex. also, at school, there is a "no physical touching" rule with couples. no one follows this rule and some hold hands during the prayer in chapel every day. i refused to do so with my other boyfriend (we are still really good friends, i think he still likes me) should i do it with this guy? my ex is really moody and since we are still best buds he would hate me so much. his friendship really means a lot to me. i REALLY like this younger guy! i would get ridiculed in the locker room for going out with this guy because most of the players are really good friends with him! i need help fast! please answer my question...i don't know how much longer i can wait for an answer.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? HereWithOpenEars answered Friday December 16 2005, 10:02 pm: Having feelings for a guy younger than you is okay, normal too. If you like this guy that much, go for it. However, don't let your emotions get in the way of your self-respect. You said you dont want to go all the way, make sure he knows that. Doesnt matter if he's younger than you- "no" means "no" and dont forget that. Me and my girlfriend understand each others comfort zone, thats what you need to establish. As far as parents go, talk to them. Sounds stupid but let them know that your not plannin on running to Vegas or anything, just that you like this guy. Chances are you Dad doesnt wanna see his "little girl" get hurt, which is understandable. as far as moms go-only heaven knows...=)
whyamimakingthis answered Saturday November 26 2005, 8:55 pm: im not sure that this is the man for you. it seems as though he might be using you to keep his popularity strong. personally. i think that you should keep being on the lookout. and if the time is right. tell your ex how you feel and ask him if it woiuld be okay you guys date. if it is then you might want to make a move. if not.. then keep playing the flirt game.. but dontn go overboard
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