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Too much change
13/f
I used to wish my bf would take our relationship more seriously. I wished he weren't so prude. Well, I finally worked up the courage to kiss him one day. But now he's so different. After we kissed he said it wasn't as awkward and now all he wants to do is talk romantic, hold me, kiss me, etc. I miss the times when we were more like friends. I feel like we're going too fast (since we're only 13). I don't know what to do and if I talk to him, he might get mad or something. Got any advice for me please?
MH
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Well, just say, "I feel like we're moving too fast." When he starts holding you, and you feel uncomfortable, tell him you have to go to the bathroom. That'll help you get away for awhile. Also, tell him that you want to slow it down a bit. Hopefully, he'll totally understand, but if not, tell him it's over! You definately don't need that jerk!
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-Madison xoxo
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if he is true, he wont get mad.
just tell him.. hey , i dont like (love) you but i think we are moving to fast.. and then let him know how much you do like (love) him still.
i really dont know what you could do but talk to him .. tell him how you think your moving to fast, and you miss all the talks you guys used to have,
justine <3
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tell him the truth .. if he really loves you he will understand.... hope i helped .. Love Always, MauramOo
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If he does get mad, then he's an idiot. It's your relationship too, and you deserve a say in how fast or slow you want to go. (Just remember, he has a say in it too, so consider his feelings).
The best thing you can do is talk to him about it. Maybe online, since that usually gives people the courage to say what's on thier minds... because they can't see you, or anything. Tell him that you like that he's taking you guys more seriously.. but that you think he's taking it too fast. Tell him you're uncomfortable with it... he'll slow down if he truly likes you. After all, didn't you wait for him?
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I don't think he will get mad if you talk to him about it. If he does then you don't want him anyway. So, I think you should talk to him before he wants to take it further than your prepared for. You got his hormones kicked into high now! :)
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So.. first you wanted him to be more serious about the relationship, and now you want him to be not so serious again? I understand now why guys think girls are so confusing. Before you do anything else, stop being so stupid and then maybe things can work out.
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Wow you got some balls to go up to him like that lol anyways tell him to take it slow
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hey! I know how you feel! what you need to do is sit him down and talk to him and if that doesnt work, pull away and like start talking and acting like you used to and still kiss him and stuff just not as often! and since you kissed him the first time I think you can get him to lay off too! good luck! ~~goodbye~~
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The problem is that you two are only 13. You can't have a serious relationship. If you feel like your going too fast, tell him. Say that you are not ready for a romantic relationship and you would prefer to stay just friends. And if he gets mad, well too bad for him!
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Well i had my first kiss in 4th grade so being 13 aint bad. Theres nothing wrong with kissing. Yeah your right your only 13 and sex would be alittle to much i no. If you dont like it just tell him. He seems like a sweet boy and wont get mad. Just when he goes to kiss you just be like bab i no you love me and love to kiss me but i just wish that we could just talk alittle. Also when you say friends do you do you mean like not go out any more? If you feel to awkward you might wanna take a break but he sound like a great boy!! Let me no how things go.
good luck :o)
Love'
Sweetie Pie Ashley
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He sounds like he really cares about you and wants to make you happy. If he ever trys to go too far with you just tell him your not ready. As for what he is doing right now like holding you and kissing you, it's not moving too fast.
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Hey! I think you should just try and talk to him. He sounds like someone who really cares. He loves you enough to try and make you feel happy. Just tell him how you feel! Hope my advice helps!
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go along with it. if he wants to kiss you let him. and let him hug you. talk to him more like friends but still make it romantic. and take it slow..if hes moving to fast let him know.
hope i helped,
Cierra
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