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First kiss x a dozen!
Me and my boyfriend kissed for the first time a while back, and now he keeps wanting to do it every day. I'm afraid if we keep kissing every day, we'll soon grow bored of it and move of to sex. I don't want to take things too fast. So what should I do?
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...kiss him... hes your boyfriend, just let him know you dont want to take it any furthur
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Just don't let him get into deep mouth passionate kissing. You have to draw a line between a kiss and passion kissing.. If he trys to get into the underwear zone, tell him you don't want to get any diseases. Because that's a very dangerous place to be at a young age. If he trys to move on to sex, tell someone your close to, and have them come with you to places, like if you go to the movies, have her come and make sure nothing serious happens. Hope I helped* xoxo
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Usually, kissing isn't something you grow bored of.. but, it definently should be treasured.. and kissing isn't something that should be part of an everyday routine, just because you "have to". Though, I can see how kissing everyday would be nice... Talk to him about it, though, if you really think it's a big problem.
Chances are, you won't move on to sex. Sex is a big step in a relationship, and there are TONS of things you can do before sex... I wouldn't worry about it. Leave it alone unless he tries to pressure you into it (or anything else you're uncomfortable with). Then leave him alone.
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It's good that you are thinking about it. I think that since you are you shouldn't worry much about it going further than you are prepared to go. Kissing isn't something that you'll get bored with...just talk a little now and then so you don't get chapped lips. :)
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little kisses now and then aren't that bad, like if you're giving each other goodbye kisses. you don't have to have sex until you're ready so don't let him pressure you
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well it depends on how old ya'll are. but if he loves you as much as you think he does. he wont do it. unless he talks to you about it first. and if you say no he'll leave it alone for a while. hope i helpeD!!
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RaChel
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hey. your bf is probably a physical kind of guy. he likes to be with you and be like that. and maybe you guys are going to get bored of it, but that doesnt mean you have to move on to sex. you guys could try different kissing games or kissing differently. theres a long way to go before sex, so stop before and enjoy the it. however, if you dont like that idea, maybe talk to him about it so that hes clear that you wont have sex with him for a while. tell him you dont want to go too fast, and i'm sure he'll understand. if you have any more questions, drop a message in my inbox. peace and love xoxo
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Well thats what you do in a relationship..LoL but if it makes you uncomfutable i guess you could tell him you dont want to kiss as much..And if you dont want to do that and it does lead to sex...If you tell him your not ready then he should respect that. If he keeps pushing you to have sex then hes not right for you..
michelle♥
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Just tell him that you think he is moving to fast. He might not realize that you feel that way. If he still tries to move to fast, then he isnt the right guy for you. But try and talk to him and get his opinion. Hope my advice helps!
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One of the most important things to remember when you're in any relationship is that you should be comfortable with that relationship. This means you should be comfortable with the physical part of you being with your boyfriend, along with the emotional. If you don't want to keep kissing him, you really don't have to - and never feel like you have to continue to kiss him just because he's your boyfriend.
Having said all of that, if you do in fact want to continue to kiss him but don't want it to lead to sex, that's a boundary that can be set. If he respects you at all, he'll respect your decision not to have sex and making out won't be a huge issue.
Noe, if he doesn't really respect you, and ever forces you to do anything you don't want to do, tell someone right away - and get the hell out of the relationship. You should never feel pressured to become more physically involved than you want to, stay true to yourself about that.
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talk to him about it!
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Yeah, Your right! Kissing can at times lead to sex or the discussion of sex. So if it ever comes up to where he trys to go further then your ready to go (tell him your not ready). Most guys will try to pressure you into it. If this ever happens leave him.
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You have to be honest with him - tell him your in it for love not just a physical relationship. Just tell him its going too fast, and you would like to maybe talk first before you start kissing again. Get to know eachother and make sure he knows it will be more fun if you wait for perfect moments to kiss! ;] My boyfriend loved it when I told him that - and he got it, too. I mean, it keeps the suspense going, you know? And passion - and thats what keeps relationships going for so long. Its really, really important to savor every moment of a relationship! A kiss is not to be casual! So, try giving him a hug & holding hands, then when you think its right, kiss him. The moment will be very special & romantic ♥ Laura
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