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ok i have some acne. not a lot but some. and my friend will sometimes make fun of it. i dont think she realizes it, but she still does it. then when i ask her not to say it she just goes, "gosh i was just kidding!" now this girl is flat chested, and if i ever make a joke about that she completely refuses to talk to me for like a day. today something happened and i apologized to her 3 times but she wont forgive me! ive known this girl since second grade and i really dont want to lose a friend. help please!
*confuzed*

Explain to her that it hurts your feelings when she makes jokes about it. Tell her that she doesnt like when you make fun of her so she shouldnt make fun of you. If she doesnt understand after you talk to her she might not be that great of a friend and you might not want to stay friends with her, as hard as it is. :\ Hope I helped xox.

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ok i just got pro-active and i was wondering how long does it take 2 start seeing results?

and everyone always tells me such good stuff about it.. but has it NOT worked for anyone?! has anyone had any bad experiences with it. thanks!!

I tried it once, it didnt work for me, but everyone has different skin types so it might for you. The time it will take to work depends on how bad your acne is, usually about 5 weeks to lil over 2 months. Maybe less. xox.

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my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!

Hey try shower-to-shower deoderant powder, theirs a ton of different kinds, they work great! They absorb the sweat and dont let you smell, it works alot better than baby powder :) Hope I helped xox.

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I have these dark purplish circles under my eyes. And my eyelids are almost always red...Majority of the time I get 8 hours of sleep and I am 13 years old. Is there anything I can do to get rid of these hideous circles?

You can put concealor on, and if you can wear make up get a liquid foundation and like put a lil bit on a sponge and wipe it over your eyelids and up towards your eyebrows so it evens out and around your eyes and blend it. That helps cover the colors. Also maybe try putting a warm wash cloth over your eyes in the morning for at least 10 minutes and do that for a couple of days and see if that helps any. Hope i helped xox.

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Ok so I usually get my period around the 12th or 13th. In April I got it the 23rd. What time of the month should I expect to get it in May? The time I usually do or the time I had it last?

Usually your period will change, like it will be in the beginning of the month and then the next month it will be at the end of the month. Keep track on your calendar or somewhere and then you'll see the pattern. :) hope i helped xox.

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does anyone have a music code for the song..beverly hills by weezer?

Im not sure if I have what you're looking for but I have a few music sites you can look around: http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=your_music_guide .. that has a bunch of sites. xox.

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i really like this guy... and i think he likes me to. the problem is we never c each other at school. he sugests that we talk on the fone, but im too shy to do that. i want something to happen between us, but how do i get over that shyness?

Just relax. Talk to him on the phone, at least for a few minutes a day. After a few times you'll be so used to it that you wont even notice :). xox.

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does having sex in a pool lessen your chances or getting pregnant?

No it doesnt, its the same as having sex in a bed. You can get a birthcontrol patch/pill and have sex in a pool and not get pregnant.. xox.

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is it weird if someone ((a guy)) rights a song for you ((he likes me ALOT)) and sings it to you on the phone? it seems weird to me

Thats not weird! Thats so very sweet :) You should feel flattered =P Thats a very sweet thing for a guy to do. xox.

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One of my friends has tried to comitte suicide twice before and i am afraid she will do it again it terifies me what should i do.

Call up a hotline and have her talk to them, and tell an adult. Make sure she knows your there for her & that she can talk to you. Maybe the best thing to do is tell her parents, or if they know already then have her get counciling.

I know how that feels, I hope things get better xox. :\

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ok i went to the store to buy my makeup and i accidently bought this translucent powder stuff. what is it? its pretty much the color of my face, but it doesn't really go on like normal powder.

Its a kind of powder that helps keep shine away and goes to the color of your face so you dont look like your wearing any :) xox.

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