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ok i think im kind of bi but im not really sure and to afraid to say anything to anyone, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that gay people are gross and if i was ever gay that he wouldnt like it because he wouldnt want me to leave him for a girl but i told him i wouldnt if i was gay but he said it would still be gross....and on top of that almost all people i hang around with are gay,but i cant even tell them or anything because they consider me there "straight" friend...and they would all think its probably weird also if i said anything...what should i do???
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OMG! fooolooow your heart grrrl! Hay..if your bf cant stand gay ppl....then he is gay ((i mean that like hes mean!))...Just like look for things that would see if your gay....like give youirself little secret life tests. asHleyx3
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I think you may be wrong about your gay friends. They would be the perfect ones to ask. Just ask them how do you know if you are bi? They would know better than we! :)
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Okay first you said you THINK your bi....Wiat until your sure to tell anyone. If you are sure tell your boyfriend if he doesnt except it then its his problem cause its apart of who you are explain taht you cant become bi and that you always were and that if he ever cared for you you were the same person as before as you are no. Then tell your say it to each of them sepretly tell him your bi. Say that its important that you have their support since you boyfriend isnt being so supportive with his gay people are gross coments.
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Hey. Definitely a tough sitution but nothing we can't solve! Okay, well your 'boyfriend of two years' wouldn't care if you were straight or bi, as long as he loves you and cares about you. So if he doesn't like the true & real you then you should forget about him b/c it just doenst seem wroth it to continue to hide the real you for your relationship. How will anythiing last; if you aren't honest with eachother? Also- with your gay friends, how did you react when they told you their sexuality. Think abuot it that way and realize you still hang out w/ them & they will hang out with you. And plus i'm sure their are plenty of other straight friends out there for them to hang out with! I would encourage you to come out of the closet; b/c life is too short to hide away. :) Let your feelings come out; and just enjoy being YOU!
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i think if your bf thinks gay people are gross then u shouldnt be around him. if i was in your shoes i would dump him
Ang your gay friends would understand because they probably hade to go through the same thing
Hope i helped,
Sam
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i would just wait and see if i was really bi or anything like see if i look at another girls butt on purpose something like that u know. if i find out that im was really bi then i would ask my gay friends what to do because they been like that longer then i have. im sorry i dont know what to do about the boyfriend thing
good luck
lisa
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I think you should keep that to yourself for the time being... since ur not sure whether you are gay or not... you need to figure yourself out first... and take it from there... because no matter what you are... your TRU friends will accept you no matter what...
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heyy .. just tell the people you trust now because later on they will find out by themlseves so your better off just telling them now and if your bi it isnt the same as being gay or being a lesbian it just means you like both boys and girls and they probably wont act weird adn if they do they will get over it fast trust me they will jsut have to accept you for who you are and you should tell them that
hope i helped
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Have you had any experiences with the same sex? You might just think you are bisexual because you think it's not wrong or anything. Picture this...if you're boyfriend told you he was bi...wouldn't you be afraid he would leave you? When you say you're bi, are you considering breaking up with him?
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Don't tell anyone if you don't want to. Wait until you feel comfortable, which I don't see why you can't tell your already gay friends.
-Brianna
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