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O.k so my freiend has feelings for me (love feelings). I 'm not sure what to do. When she told me I told her I was flattered and I was but its been really awkward trying to make conversation since. We used to mess around and call each other "sexy," so I assume she got the wrong idea. The other day she sarted feeling me up and iI told her it was wrong and Iw asn't into girls as much as she is. I don't know what to say or do to make her realise I don't fancy her. Any advice,I rate a five for any good advice.
p.s I'm a 16 year old girl. Don't reply to this if your going to give me shit about being shallow, cause I don't care what you think!
Thanxs. xox
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Hey-The number one thing you dont' want to do is lead her on... let her know how you feel and tell her you still want to be friends; but there is a place where your going to have to draw the line. And believe me, i dont think you are shallow at all. Your being truthful & you dont want to lose a friend b/c of this... also- -- after you have the conversation with her; chances are she may give you the "cold shoulder" & try to walk away. But don't let her; act as if nothing ever happened, so she wont feel embarassed about the whole situation... just make sure to make her feel comfortable & welcome again... and just hang out & have fun :) Good Luck!
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Hey! Well if you don't like your friend tell her. It's not right to let her go on thinking "something" could form or happen between you two. Telling her you don't "fancy" her maybe the only way to cool her down a tad. So if you go on with out telling her, she may get the wrong idea and continue with her way of thinking.
I really don't think I helped at all lol but uhm I hope I did!!
Good luck!!
-erin
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Just sit her down and explain to her that your not into that kinda stuff. Trust me I know your position alotta my friends are Bi-Sexual and just they are always all over me and im like NOOOOO! well IM me if you need more help...buh bye
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That would be really awkward...first step is to maybe tell her that you are not interested in girls and that at the moment you just wanted to be friends and if that doesnt work just try to find her another girl and she'll probably forget about you.
~Steph~
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I think the easiest thing would be to just straight out tell her that you aren`t into girls like that. I mean it`s good to joke with your friends. I call my closest friend Sexy all the time, but it`s nothing more than that. You don`t want to lead her on ya know? I would just be straight up, and tell her how uncomfortable it made you that she would make advances like that. If she`s a good enough friend, she`ll respect your wishes and actually take to heart what you say.
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your not shallow!! is she a lez? then just explain 2 her how you feel.
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All you can do is tell her that you don't swing that way. Also, tell her that you didn't really mean it when you called her sexy and stuff. That is all you really can do. If she doesn't stop with the stuff, you can always have the option of not being her friend. Sorry, and good luck!
-Brianna
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Have sex with her. After she sees that you suck and weren't into it, she'll leave you alone.
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Just be honest. Tell her that you are her friend, and that you value her friendship...But also tell her that the situation is becoming akward for you. If she is your friend, she needs to respect your feelings...and your personal space.
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