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Left Out Friend
I have this friend (we'll call her Rachel) that was my best friend for years, and another best friend that we used to hang out with all the time, and we were a trio. Now, Rachel is getting on my other friend's nerves a lot, and she is ignoring Rachel all the time. Rachel is getting to be a little annoying for me too, but I try to handle it because I don't want to get Rachel all angry at me. Rachel isn't really my best friend any more, but I don't want to hurt her feelings. Sometimes I find myself making up lies to get out of hanging with Rach, and it makes me feel terrible. What can I do?
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Tell her that she can be quite annoying somtimes and ask her to please stop annoying you so much.
Zoey x x x
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That sucks that you feel that way, but that is life. Just try telling her that you guys aren't as good of friends as you used to be. Maybe you can tell her that she gets on your guys' nerves too. If she doesn't understand and whatever, why do you care, she isn't your best friend anymore. I think she will live if you tell her that you aren't as close as you used to be with her. GOod luck!
-Brianna
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i know someone like that and i try to avoid her and i know its not nice but it drives me nuts.. anyway you could just say you need some space or tell her shes getting on your nerves in a gentle way
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