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Confusing 'relationship' of sorts
Hey ya'll. Thanks for looking at my question.
I like this guy, Danny. Well, I don't really like him, but you know that crazy feeling that you get when you sort of like someone yet you sort of don't? (Confusing I know..)
Well I'm 17 and anyways, I kind of have the hotts for him and we talk alot on the AIM. I've know him for all my life, and we've just sort of gotten attracted to each other.
I think I could like him more than just attraction and fooling around.
The bad part about it is he lives in another state, and he's my best friend's brother. But I go out there frequently.
But I have no idea how to present the idea of liking each other to him. He is nineteen and of course its not that bad, I'll be of age soon.
I'm really bad with words and want to ask him if he feels anything for me and would like to have a relationship with me. In a nut shell. I don't want to freak him out, or make him think that I just sit around thinking about him all day.
Help please, thanks :)
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ask your friend if shed care first. then just tell him that your feelings are growing for him more than getting with eachother and your wondering how he feels
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Next time you are talking on AIM, tell him next time you're visiting...why don't we go see a movie or something? See what his reaction is. :)
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You could date him casually, but if he lives in another state...
I have a girlfriend in another school and we barely see eachother. Follow your heart. It could or could not be something.
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hey- this sounds tough, but if you really care about him (and it sounds like you do) you have to come out of the closet and let him know how you feel. If you are truly good friends he'll like to know the truth and maybe something more will come out of it- but you'll hate yourself if you dont try. If you feel most comfortable online then tell him there. :) Although, some guys i have talked to like being asked out in person. You could also act flirtatious and let him do the asking! Let us know how it works out!
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First off wait until your legal age, okay then the question is do you trust him, if you dont then realize that since hes in another state the possibilitys of him cheating are higher then if he lived near you. If you trust him then thats great you guys could proably form a relationship. To not freak him out you might want to wait till you guys are alone maybe watch a movie or something. Look at him and say whats on your mind basically say that you think you 2 should try being more then friends. Tell him hes hot occasionally before you tell him how you feel like in a jokingly way like ha ha your so hot. I know it sounds weird but its something important that way when you tell him how you feel he will be more comfortable with the idea. Its all about giving subtle signals.
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Hey you can tell him on the computer. Or you can have your best friend tell him. Or, you can just casually ask him who he likes. Then tell him that you like him. Sorry, that's the best advice I can give! Good luck!
-Brianna
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Well you said you arent real good with words to ask him about this whole thing.. so maybe doing this in person wouldnt be a good idea.. if i was you id probably do this on AIM so it will be easier for you to say what you have too..
Well start with any other conversation.. Then maybe say something like to get his attention so you can get ready to tell him you are attracted to him more then friends and that you would like to know if he likes you more then friends but if not then your okay with it.. you was just wondering if he felt the same way.. I know this will be hard to do cause ive had to tell a close friend of mine that i liked them more then friends and that was almost ten months ago and were still together.. hope the same happens for you and please dont rate me if i didnt help.. if you need more advice drop it in my inbox id be proud to help more.. much luv dez x0x0
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