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what should i do???
ok my parents rele fight alot!!!wen i try to go to bed (well atleast try)there always yelling.i've tryed to break it up and talk it out but they yell more!!wat do i do??
sighned,
janice05
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Try to talk to one of them at a time when they aren't angry at each other. If your dad isn't home talk to your mom. Tell her that they're fighting bothers you it keeps you up at night and you want it stop. I'm sorry to say this but if the fighting continues your family may even want to discuss a divorce. Talk to each of your parents seperately tell them each how you feel and try to see how they feel about. Then after that try to get all of you to talk together and discuss very calmly what's going on and how they feel.
I hope things improve for you...good luck
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when one of them isnt home talk to one of them and say it makes you upset and you cannot sleep, and they should try to talk things out
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Try talking to them the next day. Before they go at it again! But while they are in a good mood. They really aren't in the mood to listen during the yell fest. Talk to them when things are calm. :)
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Hey Janice:
Tell your parents how you feel, and tell them that their arguing makes your worry and makes you feel uncomfortable. Ask them what their intentions are; and just to let you know whats going on; b/c your just as into this as they are. If they continue to yell & fight then you need to let them know you feel in a more agressive way.
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Well, Janice05,
Your parents need to work it out, you don't help by getting in the middle of it trust me! Just ask if they could keep it down whille you sleep! Hope i helped!
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WEll, if your brave, try this. THis works great with kids.
First, approach them in the AM, when they are not actually fighting, the tell them you love them both very much, then tell them that they kept you up again last night with their fighting, and that you are REALLY DISSAPOINTED IN THEM. (They should look down at the floor at this point) Then say I THOUGHT PARENTS WERE SUPPOSED TO SET A GOOD EXAMPLE FOR THEIR KIDS. I DON'T THINK YOU GUYS ARE GIVIN ME A GOOD EXAMPLE OF WHAT MARRIED LIFE IS LIKE. DO YOU WANT ME AND MY HUSBAND TO FIGHT LIKE THIS WHEN WERE MARRIED? And if it seems they are listening, YOU KNOW I HEARD A DR PHIL ON OPRAH SAY THAT COUPLES CAN LEARN TO FIGHT FAIR, IS THERE A WAY YOU GUYS CAN LEARN HOW TO DO THAT? I HEAR IT INVOLVES A LOT LESS YELLING AND MUCH MORE RESOLUTION. And now if they are still listening, (with their eyes wide open and their jaws dropped open) say I wish you guys would do that because like I said, I love you both, and want us all to stay together.
Well I hope that helped.
MIchele
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Aww! What an awful situation; I'm so soRRie to heaR that. And as cRappie as this is, the best thing you can do is keep out of theiR business. I know it's paRtly youR business since you aRe a membeR of the family as well, but whateveR theiR pRoblem is... is between the two of *them*. I would say suggest making moRe of an effoRt to show them how much you love them. SoRRie, Babe; theRe's just not much a kid can do in this scenaRio - just hope foR the best. I wish both you, and youR family, well. Hopefully I've been somewhat of a help to you. Know that you can always come to me foR a second opinion; you can find a fRiend in me.
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Stay out of it, and let them work it out on their own.
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well, first, it's not a good idea to get involved in their fights because they'll get mad at each other even more. I don't know why, parents are like that. You could try talking to them at a different time, when they arent fighting. One of my friends had this problem, and they just yelled from their room "If you guys are gonna fight, do it quietly so I can freakin' sleep!" Mean, but sometimes it's needed. And it gets the point across. Good luck to ya.
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OK well do u have any ideas of why they might be fighting and if not try to find out and if it is something you might be able to help fix then you should try if you want to help them if not then let them sort it out themselves but if it is serious you should think about talk to some1 u are close to lyk your best friend or an aunt or uncle or grandma or grandpa or teacher or something lyk that and if you dont feel comfortable talking to them then maybe you should think about geting a counsler to talk to because there job is to help people like you with these types of problems. I hope i was able to help i am here if you need any more help
xoxo Kaite
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