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ok so im homeschooled... and next year i'll be going into 9th grade. I'm still deciding if i should keep homeschooling or go back to public. All my fiends want me to go back. I want to too but then i have two places i wanna be at.. I love being homeschooled and all but i feel like im missing the socializing... so im not sure which i should go to...
what do you think?
plz help i needa know!
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Your going into 9th grade i thought the best thing bout highschool was my friends and always hanging out in my mind you need to go back becuz ur a teen you need do be social..

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okay well, my best friend and i, we just got super close, and well yeah. He has a girlfriend, but before they hooked up I told him i liked him like 3 weeks ago, and things got odd, but then got better. Anyway. So everyday he sits with me when the lunch periods almost over, and we talk, and even though his friends sit at the table right next to us and theyre right there, he wont talk to them and he talks to me. So a couple days ago i went to his house with my friend and he just payed more attention to me. Like when we were playing basketball he passed the ball to me every time and never to her. Then today, he was sitting with me and we were looking at pictures, and we could have been far appart but he leaned in really close. And then my friend dom told him this sixth grader didnt like him anymore, and he's like, okay i dont care im not cheating on my girlfriend, i dont think, and he looked me directly in the eye and we made eye contact and he stared at me for a minute and then some one started talking to us. So then at this assembly thingy, 2 of the people he sits with said something about stabbing him, like joking around, so i told him, and he was like, what nicks not my friend. and so i told nick and hes like, shut up bitch, in a playing way, but i told him anyway, and he was like, Yo, WHAT DID YOU CALL HR? WHAT? and then later today he was like, i would have said something but our reading teacher was right behind us. and i we kept talking and anyway im just wondering if he thinks were more than just friends??


and i have another question. today he had a break down and he was like, i dont have any friends, the only people i have is my girlfriend and you and my other friend, and me and his other friend are REALLY worried that he's going to like kill himself, because when we told him to hold on he said he'd held long enough. What can i do to help him? (link)
Ok well he seems to have like a thing for if he is close to you and flirting with you and doesnt sit with his friends at the lunch but sits with you thts a big sign tht he likes you brecasue i did tht with the girl i liked in school and we ended up going out and with that break down thing try to comfort him hang out with him alot more so he thinks hes got more than just a girlfriend and you


How can I get this guy I like in jr.high that is 12-13 to notice me even though he says he does not like me? (link)
I read tht other answer and guys dont always love to talk bout themselves but we do love tits lol she is right bout talking to him ask him ?'s if hes a smart guy hell ask you ?'s back


do you think its possible to acctually fall in true love in the 7th grade? i know everyone always says you dont find love until youre older, but i think ive found the perfect person. seriously... if someone asked me to change somethinmg about him, i would say no, he needs no changing. ive gone out with him three times and all three times we broke up for stupid reasons. hes always there for me, and always makes me feel like the smartest, prettiest, most unique person in the planet. he is willing to listen to my views on things, and trys really ard to make me happy. he is artistic, yet hes also a football player. hes really hot but i SWEAR thats not why i love him. well, i think you get my point so ill be quiet now. Tell me what you think! thanks - i rate high unless your response really sucks. (link)
ok well i fell in love in the summer after 6th grade and i loved her alot so i tihnk it is totally possible it sounds like you would do alot for this guy so good luck with him i hope ur right tht hes the one

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Ok, so my friends are telling me this guy likes me, but it's not the guy I like. They said he might ask me out, but I don't have feelings for him. How can I say I don't want to go out w/ him without sounding mean? (link)
Say your really buzy at home and with homework and you dont have time for a boyfriend i really want ot do good in school(The only reason is because my x says it to me when she gets F's LOL)

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ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do? (link)
well...when they break up if they do then tell them to get over themselves and there being selfish i have so many friends i get in one fight a day with them it all turns out good though so hold in there


Alright me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and just recently for the second time we are on a break. Well every time this happen she it seems like she goes and tries to find someone to go out with i dont know what to do about it she keeps telling me she wants to get back together but know i just don't know what to do. By the way im 17 and a junior and she is 16 and a sophmore. what i am asking is what should i do. should i forget about her or should i do something. please could someone give me some advise!!! (link)
OK....You have to think.Do you really love her?Is she worth fighting for over other guys when you love her more than all of them?I had a problem like this before and yes im a guy and i dumped her and that was the worst choice ive made in years i miss her so much and nothing has worked so dont let go yet

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hi there people really bother me in school, i dont have much friends and they all tease me. boys call me a mutt and a dog and disguting pig, im not fat though and im not reallly ugly. girls bark and moo at me and push me and im sick of it, i have 2 bestfriends but they dont stick up for me. if these people knew what i been through like, my dad died when i was 6 and my bothers friggen a crack head, ligit and my sisters a big whore who doesnt talk to the whole fam.. i dont have anyone and im sick of it, what should i do? (link)
Stand up for your self push back try and do something people will think good about you i used to have really big problems like that i fought back and now i have to many friends(when i say fight i dont mean punch kick i mean stand out)>hope this helped you against those fuckers


i like this guy and i have no idea if he feels the same way. sometimes i get little signals, but nothing big. the problem is, i dont want to get too attached to him because he's not the type to have a gf. i talked about to one of my friends and she said that he would grow out of it and that i should be his first. the thing is, i dont know if he's ready to get out of it... should i forget about him or flirt with him? (link)
well u should wait because he might be the one and just because you are anxious to have a bf doesnt mean you should pass it up maybe try to talk to him that always helps me

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im back with my boyfriend james, we went out for 9 months and broke up a month ago but now we're goin out again, he cheated on me with my bestfriend and this really dirty chick. but i coudlnt help the things he says to me hes so nice. is it wrong that im back with him? this boy scotty who has been my friend always was so mad and punched him in the face when he saw me cryin when i found out. he said hed never treat a girl like that and if he does it again he'll rip him apart because he loves me.. he told me he has major feelings too and i think i like him, what should i do (link)
People make mistakes all the time its how the world works so i say you go out with him he sounds like he would do anything for you just make sure he doesnt do it again

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I'm a fourteen-year old female I have a girlfriend that I really love but never see. When she talks about sex, she reminds me of my rapist so we haven't had sex yet and I don't think I want to. Every time we talk about getting together she talks about sex, but she writes me poetry and she's really loving. She's suicidal and I feel like protecting her. She hasn't come out to her parents yet and I think she feels safe with me. What should I do? She sort of creeps me out, mostly because she cares about sex so much. I'm a virgin save for my molestation when I was 7 through 8. I don't think she gets that I'm touchy about it, no pun intended (dark humor, sorry). I used to cut myself but I stopped, and she still wants me to. I told her I stopped and she asked me why not. She still does. Her mom's always on heroin and she does pot. I want and don't want to dump her at the same time. Should I break up with her? (link)
you need to talk to her bout that hole cutting thing and if you lok deep enough in your heart you will find the answer bout the breaking up if all she talks about is sex than she probally is just anjust to see what its like

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this girl just turned 16.. her name is Olivia.. we met b/c she goes to my school and we've been good friends and we made each other laugh and had a pretty fun and good relationship but then she broke up w/ her freshman b/f.. and we started talking.. and we had late conversations on the phone and talked on AIM alot. The problem is.. i can't say I'm in love w/ her truly if she doesn't talk to me in person.. she treats me like ne other friend when I'm around her but on the phone.. we're good.. and i asked her about it and she told me we just need to get to know each other better. Her best friend is giving me feed back on how she likes to flirt... and she went on a one on one "go out"... it wasn't supposedly a "date".. should i give this girl a try or just stop it?
-Hewitt, 14, TN (link)
Well you have to think hard is she worth the missery or are you just doing this to have a gf alot of girls like to flirt alot but maybe once you start talking to her maybe she'll find she really really likes you and wants to be more than friends keep it up with the long chats because the more you do that the more she will know you and will even like you more too probaly

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hey... my boyfriend and i just had a big talk and he wants to be in "time-out"
i have no clue what that means just that theres no kissing at school (so he said). now i dont know how to act around him or what to say to him
My questions are ... what do you think time-out is and how should i act around him at school???... im so confused and lost in all of this (link)
Maybe he doesnt like showing himself like that in the school or he is a jerk.He might just need a break from it all so don't dump him act like friends untill he's ready to be more than friends again

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There's this new guy at our school. We've already become really good friends and I've introduced him to some other people. But he doesn't seem to open up in public. (like on AIM we talk for hours, but at school it's just a simple "Hi") What can I do to make him feel more welcome? (link)
when his on aim with you ask him why is so shy he might give you the answer to why hes shy or mayb he likes you if your a girl i can't tell becasue you don't say but if he does like you maybe its hard for him to talk to you up in person.




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