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im back with my boyfriend james, we went out for 9 months and broke up a month ago but now we're goin out again, he cheated on me with my bestfriend and this really dirty chick. but i coudlnt help the things he says to me hes so nice. is it wrong that im back with him? this boy scotty who has been my friend always was so mad and punched him in the face when he saw me cryin when i found out. he said hed never treat a girl like that and if he does it again he'll rip him apart because he loves me.. he told me he has major feelings too and i think i like him, what should i do
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Wow this scotty guy sounds better then any guy who cheats on a girl with two different females.. this guy scotty apparently cares for you and wants to be with you so since you said you like him maybe try going for him instead of this guy james.. i meani could understand if you love this guy james cause i could imagine that you do and that you dont want to break up with him cause ive been with my boyfriend for 10 months and i stay with him even if he cheated on me cause i love him so much.. so i hope you miake the right choice and dont get hurt hun.. do what will make you happy.. much luv dez x0x0
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I am sure he said those nice things to your best friend, just to get her in bed, and now it is working with you. Do you want a guy who says nice things, but does shitty things? Scotty sounds like a much nicer guy to me. But I know, we girls always want the bad guys. Until we get, and we marry them, and then they make our lives miserable, and then we long for guys like Scotty, and we look at the girls who did marry the nice guys (that we though were boring!!) and they have nice lives, and nice homes, and a husband who works hard to suppor them, and adores them. And it's too late for us.
So just keep going with James if you want to end up like that.
Michele
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Heyy sweetie, lets start out with i know exactly what your talking about. The same thing happened with me. I went out with this boy for 9 months and I absolutly loved him, he was my everything, i gave my virginity to him, and i was so attached. Well of course after we broke up, he told me he cheated on me with his best friend (girl). Well anyways i was soo depressed and devistated and i thought i could never love any1 again and blah blah blah.. it was bad haha. WELL it took me a while but i moved on and i'm with this AMAZING guy right now.. i love him so much, he treats me sooo good and i'm so happy... of course i still think about my ex cuz he was my first love but you need to move on. You can't be stuck on som1 forever because *you'll miss out on somthing that could be amazing* - which is what you really should do babe. I totally understand your feelings for james and 9 months is a pretty long time... But hunn, he cheated on you! That should make you walk away, butttt i know how you feel once again, i felt the same way- i didnt care. So you really need to think what is best for you, it takes a while to get over some1 probably like James. And i strongly highly suggest you and your guy friend need to be together.. The way he cares about you, and how you guys are probably so close... He's good for you! My boyfriend now is so amazing to me and my ex was horrible.. He told my dad i wasnt a virgin, he made me lose my best friend, he cheated on me... It just goes on lol. And the problem was, i was in love with him at the time. So you need to really think about everything, and i think you reallllly need to get with your guy friend. It sounds so cute. Tell you ex exaclty how you feel.. and the same with your guy friend. He cares so much about you, and you like him too, and belive me, you'll find its so much better when you know the person would never ever want to hurt you. So get with him! Loose the jerk sweetie.. good luck, hope i helped, drop one in my imbox, and tell me how things go!! or ask another question any time you want :)
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People make mistakes all the time its how the world works so i say you go out with him he sounds like he would do anything for you just make sure he doesnt do it again
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honestly i think that you should dump james. if he cheated on you once before he will do it again. i'm sorry to say that but it's true. that's how people are girls too. it sounds like scotty cares a lot about you and maybe even has feelings for you stick with the winner
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well you deffff. need to dump that whore james.. like why would you let some1 treat you like that? even if you do love him, hes a cheating bastard.. everyone goes through this.. you should give things a try with scotty cause he sounds really sweet and he cares for you a lot.. well good luck with everything & i hope you make the right decision babe <3
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I think I like Scotty. A guy can say any damn thing he wants, and you'll believe it if you want to. James has proven himself unreliable and willing to hurt you. While Scotty's violence is worrisome, I must say I'd like a man to stick up for my honor once in a while. It could get him in real trouble, but he many be worth a shot. However, I'd definately kick James to the curb. A cheat and a smooth talker are nothing but a heartache waiting to happen. Luck and love!
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I could see you forgiving the guy if it was a one time thing. I don't know how committed a guyu is if he cheats more than once. I have my doubts, but that one is up to you.
Scotty sounds like a nice guy, and he likes you. You know he probably isn't going to cheat on you since he has already proven himself to be an honorable guy. If you want to date him instead, I think it would be a wonderful thing for you. :)
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well i always say everyone deserves a second chance, but i really hate dudes that cheat.
you have to ask yourself if you can handle getting hurt again. im not saying thats definatly going to happen but its very pessible. if they do it once theres a big chance theyll do it agian.
i personally would dump james and try something with scott. you like him and its so obvious hes into you. and i dont think scott would do the things james would do
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babe, did u relaize, james and your best friend? your not friends with her right.. that was 9 months holy cow lol.. well scotty seems like the perfect boy, he punched him? thats so sweet i think u should break up with james or take a break and see what happens with scotty! goodluckk babyxoxo
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