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my best friend
ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?
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Don't worry! Youre counting your chicks before they hatch, but if this occurs...
You must draw the line. You must be the mature one and not let them put you in the middle. My friends tend to put me in the middle; I have found if you stop something before it starts things end up just fine. Tell them you like them both and if they start to talk about the other one, just cut it off with a kind remark about the other person. No one likes to talk about people to a person who likes the person theyre talking about.
Hope you got that. Good luck, but just have fun while theyre together! Friends who like each other are so much fun!
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tell them that if anything does happen ur not gonna choose between the two of them cause you love them both equally and you just wouldnt feel right to have to exclude one of them
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Tell them that you cant chose between your best friends.
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If they were good friends to begin with, the break-up may not necessarily be bad. But if it is, just tell them that they should both be mature enough to not make you have to pick/bicker infront of you.
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well...when they break up if they do then tell them to get over themselves and there being selfish i have so many friends i get in one fight a day with them it all turns out good though so hold in there
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Make it clear to them right now that if something happens you are not going to let it affect your feelings for either. You are not going to take sides. If they get into a fight...stay out of it. I know that will be a hard one to do, but you have to. Don't take sides. Tell them that you will not listen to negative things from either of them about the other. Hope that helps! :)
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ok, i've taken the part of the ones going out. we broke up and nothings differant. we're still friends, and we didn't ask our friends to take sides. so don't worry, it'll work out ok.
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Never choose sides. If they are your real friends they wouldn't make you pick sides. :-)
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I wouldn't allow someone to eveR put me in a position like that. If these people aRe youR "fRiends", then I hope to God that they have moRe Respect foR you than that. It's *THEIR* pRoblem if they bReak up, it's simply unfair of them to tRy and make it *YOURS* PeRsonally, I would Refuse to have to select one fRiend and see who stays and who gets pissed and decides that this silly feud is woRth thRowing a fRiendship away oveR, if anyone at all. I wish you well! Hope I helped!!
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Well then don't choose, make them battle it out. Make them understand that they aren't being good friends if they make you choose sides. xO ali
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i say to just wait and see what happens, but if they do make you choose then just decide who is more important and who is your real true friend.
♥ Tara ♥
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don't worry about them breaking up. wait until that time comes and when it does tell them you don't choose between friends.
*BeSs*
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