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I'm a 17 year old senior at Sherman High school; graduation is nearing, things are changing. I've went through many different things in my short life span, and I find myself always helping out my friends. Sometimes its so much easier for me to give the right advice to them, than to know what to do for myself. I used to cheer and love to sing. You'll probably find I'm just a typical teenage girl! I have this driving care about people and want to help them anytime I can. So if you need someone, try me.
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hello wonderful
Most people say wait at least 6 months with someone before you even consider marriage. Well I was with someone 9 months, and there's no way in hell it was right. If it took me 9 months to realize something, then it might take others a lifetime. Love is a measure of our maturity, growth; something that is worked on daily. Guys aren't as good of communicators as women (esp. in the feelings arena) and tend to freeze, run, or say something totally opposite from whats truly in their hearts. What you must do is give him space and a little time, and if this is something meant to be - he'll come back to you and want to talk it out and try again to tell you how he feels. We all get frightened when we know we're putting everything on the line. So be understanding. And he'll show you the right understanding if he really wants you in his future. Go slow... things go smoother; youll appreciate the small steps, they give you time to look around and have more of a clue to what you want... than the rushed steps to get somewhere, only to find... youre lost.
tell me..all knowing one...what do you do when you fall for a best friend...is this ok...becuase i know her like the back of my hand..would it be save to proceed into a realtionship..would it last..advice me
If you fall for a best friend. Don't let them know it. I find that youll regret it. I have had some of the best guy friends that I would never let feelings of more enter in because I enjoy them and want them to trust me, not have to worry about nonsense and such. If you really love someone, you want the best. Each situation is different of course, and sometimes all you have is your heart to guide you. Youll know if there is suppose to be something more, and youll know if you need to keep your mouth shut by the way she acts towards you... go into more detail and I can help you greater on this.
And for some reason I feel like this is Moster asking me this... Am I really all knowing? :)
Help im realy bored i do nothing all day except watch T.v and i have allready browsed the intire internet help!can you think of something to do I am realy realy bored!You may think that in exagerating but im not its realy an emergency.
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Haha, sounds like you need medicine for that ADHD... calm down. Its okay. Really. I get like that ALL the time... the thing that cures this is to get out of the house and in the sunshine. Be creative and be safe. Go ride around with friends, swing at park, or shopping! And... if youre computer literate, go to xanga.com and make an online journal.
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..as in your attention span gets distracted easily. And you become hyper easily. Its another way to say youre a bored crazy teenager, but little kids sometimes have to take pills to calm them down from this - so they concentrate on school and such. :)
my bestest estestest big sister.. is leavin me... how can she??? lol i know shes only going to grayson.. but still.. lol jk... what should i name my puppie???
People have to grow up. People have to change. There is a reason for the seasons we go through. BUT, I love you more than life. I will always be here for you and you better not forget it.
RAWR!!!!! Hmm advice. Jacque giving advice?!? now I've heard it all. I'll come to you when I need some advice.
Hunter, just because I ask others for advice doesn't mean I'm not great at giving it. You're older and I respect you. :)
If this wasn't Hunter... then my appologies.
Alright. This has been driving me insane since I heard this riddle. The scientific thing is that 80% of kindergarteners could figure it out when only 17% of Students in Universities could. The riddle is what smokes crack. I can't figure it out. It's driving me CRAZY! Can anyone help me figure it out?
I know what you are talking about... and the answer is nothing.
Because nothing is greater than God, worse than the devil... blah, blah, blah...
My best friend and I have been really close since the beginning of this school year. Back when we first started to become really good friends, we would do everything together. Lately, shes been wanting to hang out with her boyfriend and her other friend all the time. And she always points out the bad stuff about me, like what I say, and how my personality bugs her and stuff. But I really wanna be friends with her it just hurts that shes nice to me sometimes and then so mean other times... I don't know what to do.. please help?
Sometimes we have to part ways... and sometimes life leads us where we need to be. :(
so yah.. if a guy "hides" your relationship does that mean he's embarrassed of you? i dunno. he's happy and everything but it's sort of awkward i guess. he doesn't deny it but he won't say yes..does that mean he doesn't really like me?
Maybe he likes to keep secrets? As long as he doesn't deny it, things should be fine. He might really treasure you and think of the relationship as really special... think of it this way:
If you had $100, you would be flipping it out in people faces and if someone asked if you had it you wouldnt brag, right? But you wouldn't deny having the $100...
I don't really understand it, but whenever I meet a guy for the first time now, I always feel like I'm crushing on him. My heart will start beating fast, my stomach will flip, and I'll turn bright red around them. I have some guy friends, but they only became my guy friends when they excluded me from something or got girlfriends themselves. I don't know why I like everyone...Any ideas?
Its called hormones. Its natural. We would worry about you if you didnt. The more you mature and grow, these feelings will fade.
Hey im 14 and i have this friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years but this year she is being different. She is always actin realy immature and i dont realy get it. She is always saying she is soo immature and like brags about it(witch i dont get??). I want to tell her how i feel but i cant...And that is really surprisiing cause im really stright forward with people and say what i think. But if i tell her she will be the type of peoson were she is just like "ok whatever" but i kno there is still somthing wrong. SOOoo plezzz help me!!
Girls change alot when theyre around the age of 13/14. We go through a lot of different things with our bodies, our relationships, and our thoughts. We all do alot of maturing at this time, and decisions we make effects our highschool carrer. :) What you need to do is try to get her alone and say you really just want to ask some questions and tell her how you feel about the answers. Youll find that her way of having fun isnt always immature, but later you'll wonder why you even worried about it.
i'm 13 and i'm only 5'1. i'm very self-conscious about my height so i measure myself everyday. why is it that when i wake up i'd grow half to a full inch from the night before when i measured but at the end of the day i'd measure myself again and it said that i shrunk again? this happens almost every morning, when will i stop increasing an inch and then losing an inch by the end of the day? how can i prevent it? thank u
I'm 17 and I'm 5'1. I haven't grown since I was 13. It's cool to be little! Youre probably cheating yourself on the measuring thing and you probably stand different. But don't worry! 5'2 is average height for girls. And youve still got time to grow. :)
ok two of my best freinds started going out awhile ago and i'm afraid if they break up they'l ask me to choose which one to hang out with what should i do?
Don't worry! Youre counting your chicks before they hatch, but if this occurs...
You must draw the line. You must be the mature one and not let them put you in the middle. My friends tend to put me in the middle; I have found if you stop something before it starts things end up just fine. Tell them you like them both and if they start to talk about the other one, just cut it off with a kind remark about the other person. No one likes to talk about people to a person who likes the person theyre talking about.
Hope you got that. Good luck, but just have fun while theyre together! Friends who like each other are so much fun!
hey i have until early July to lose 15 pounds [i'm 5'3] but i have absolutly NO modivation. I keep thinking i'll start tomorrow every day but it never happens and i eat junk all the time. so sooner or later i'm only going to have like a month to lose 15 pounds which wouldnt be easy at all. what im saying is i need help and lots of it... does anyone have any pointers on modivation and what not to eat [that i could last without for 3 months :)] haha... thank you soo much.
Try doing something you like doing. If you've never liked running, don't say you'll go on a jog, because that's unlikely! When I want to exercise and feel good about myself-I dance to music for a good 30 minutes. :) Doing this 3 times a week (raising your heart rate) will help you to be healthy and get rid of excess fat. And do whatever you love (dancing, skating, ridiing bikes, etc) with a friend, that way you can get lots of laughs- because laughter is very healthy! Now with food, calorie counting is history-you must watch your carbs! Dont eat much of things that are high in starch (like, bread, potatoes, etc.) Try eating things high in protein (meat, nuts, beans, etc.) Drink alot of water and try to eat proportional-stop before youre full so you won't be stuffed. Not eating lowers youre ability to work out, but eating too much drags you down too. Hope this helps!
I sprang my ankle today...the pain is worse now then it was when it first happened....what are some things i can do to make the pain go down..i took some painkillers and put ice on it...and i have one of those wrap things to wear to school tomorrow but what can i do to make the pain go down...because even with the pain killers it still hurts very bad...
Thanks
If you didn't immediately ice it, you might have damaged it a bit more. All you can do is: Once a day, for 20 minutes, ice it and then put heat on it for 5, then re-ice. And try not to over-dose on pain killers! :)