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Losing touch
My best friend and I have been really close since the beginning of this school year. Back when we first started to become really good friends, we would do everything together. Lately, shes been wanting to hang out with her boyfriend and her other friend all the time. And she always points out the bad stuff about me, like what I say, and how my personality bugs her and stuff. But I really wanna be friends with her it just hurts that shes nice to me sometimes and then so mean other times... I don't know what to do.. please help?
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You have two choices, it just depends on how much you want to save the friendship.
1) Talk to her an explain that she really hurts you when she says things like that. Tell her that you want to be her friend, but you feel neglected and even though she may not realize it, she's hurting you a lot.
2) Realize that you deserve better and end the friendship. Say "Goodbye and thanks for all the fish", and get out of there. Spend time with other friends and let the healing begin.
My reccomendation would be to try number one, and move quickly to number two if she blows you off, or says she'll be nicer but isn't.
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The same thing is happening to me. i found a bunch of friends to hang out with and when my BFF and her guy split she wanted backwith me and i ignored her because i over heard her calling a girl not being me her best friend.
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Sometimes we have to part ways... and sometimes life leads us where we need to be. :(
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Next time she is being nice to you, ask her why she treats you that way. She's probably trying to make herself look good to people she feels are better than she is. I think it's silly myself. If she continues to do it. Don't hang out with her anymore. :)
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Wow this situation sounds soo familiar..umm call her and ask her to like hang out with you..Schedule a time when she's not with her boyfriend..She probably misses you too so it won't hurt to try and work things out...I don't know why she's mean to you sometimes..ya'll jus need to like work things out..good luckk
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With the way she's treating you it looks like she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. If she was just hanging out with other people then that would be different but she is just mean to you. Even though you want to be friends with her you don't need a friend who will treat you like that nobody does. Try talking to her about it and see what she says. If she changes then that's great maybe it will bring you two closer as friends but if she still acts like this towards you then you really don't need her. Make new friends who won't treat you like that because you deserve better.
Good luck
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ditch her! shes mean to u and ditches you. Go hang out with some new friends and everytime she looks at you roll your eyes.
rate high.
-Cierra
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