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hello wonderful <3. okay ive been with this guy for roughly 8 months. we're in love. he started talking about the future and how he wants me to be in it and so i thought it would be okay to talk about it and him not get scared. i was wrong. he told me that he needed a break from "all this love crap right now" what do i do??
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Most people say wait at least 6 months with someone before you even consider marriage. Well I was with someone 9 months, and there's no way in hell it was right. If it took me 9 months to realize something, then it might take others a lifetime. Love is a measure of our maturity, growth; something that is worked on daily. Guys aren't as good of communicators as women (esp. in the feelings arena) and tend to freeze, run, or say something totally opposite from whats truly in their hearts. What you must do is give him space and a little time, and if this is something meant to be - he'll come back to you and want to talk it out and try again to tell you how he feels. We all get frightened when we know we're putting everything on the line. So be understanding. And he'll show you the right understanding if he really wants you in his future. Go slow... things go smoother; youll appreciate the small steps, they give you time to look around and have more of a clue to what you want... than the rushed steps to get somewhere, only to find... youre lost.
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