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so my friend seem tyo hate me and came up with 170 things they disliked about me i know i should just leave them but my friendship with them has existed for over a year and its hard to make new friends this far in the year so im trying to be better and more normasl but cant they just accept me for what and who i am i think that if i can at least try to keep the friendship in tact then so should they i just want 3 things in life: acceptance friendship and to never be lied to if i have not lied to them unless its really stupid like ive been to mars but honesty i wish theied just accept me
long story short how do i fix the friendships.
Solemnstar
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I know that you dont want to leave your guy's friendship but I honesly think that you deserve better friends. They dont seem to be really good friends and real friends wouldnt do that to you. You could try to talk to them about it and try to fix this. The only way you can fix it is talk to them. Dont try to change who you are for them. Be you and if they dont like that its just to bad and you will make new friends who will accept you for that. Trust me you will and it wont be that hard! Just think about it.. do you really want friends like that. But like I said talk to them and tell them how you feel and maybe it will change. x0`
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they really dont seem like very good freinds if they came up with 170 things they dont like about you. the fact taht they are making a list, no matter how long is bad enough. im not saying be mean to them, still say hi if you see them in the halls and such but they are not your friends. i recommend joining a club or some other organazation taht is the easiest way to make friends.
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Leave them i know it wil be hard but try to hang around with other friends in your class. Tell them that they need to accept you the way you are! they dont seem very nice. show them the list of 170 things they dont like about you. but boxes next to all of them and give it to them ask them to tick the boxes which are right and they have to be truthful. hope i helped you
luv shelly
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If they have come up with 170 things they dislike about you...forget them. They are not friends of yours and probably never were. Anyone who takes the time to make a list that long is mean and a real jerk. You will be much better off taking the energy it would take to remain friends with these morons and using it to make real friends. :)
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..And you say that he/she is your "friend" ? o_0 I'm sorry if you consider that a friend because I have a totally different definition..Oh and you're always going to be lied to so that doesn't even matter. Just be yourself, you'll meet alot of NICER people that you can consider friends.
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i know it might be hard to find friends at your school..but do you really want ur friends to be talking behind your back and coming up with reasons why they DONT LIKE YOU? thats not friendly at all. i can assure you that there are better people out there who can really be your friend and not treat you like your current "friends" do. you dont deserve that kind of friendship. you deserve to be respected and accepted and the people who dont accept you for who you are dont deserve to be your friends.
hope i help
xoxo
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