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Why does she do this???
Hey im 14 and i have this friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years but this year she is being different. She is always actin realy immature and i dont realy get it. She is always saying she is soo immature and like brags about it(witch i dont get??). I want to tell her how i feel but i cant...And that is really surprisiing cause im really stright forward with people and say what i think. But if i tell her she will be the type of peoson were she is just like "ok whatever" but i kno there is still somthing wrong. SOOoo plezzz help me!!
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Girls change alot when theyre around the age of 13/14. We go through a lot of different things with our bodies, our relationships, and our thoughts. We all do alot of maturing at this time, and decisions we make effects our highschool carrer. :) What you need to do is try to get her alone and say you really just want to ask some questions and tell her how you feel about the answers. Youll find that her way of having fun isnt always immature, but later you'll wonder why you even worried about it.
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You just have to tell her straight. Stop acting like a fool. There is a time and a place for acting goofy. If you don't say something then people are going to think she is weird! :)
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give her the cold shoulder for a little while. (1-4 days & dont act like you totally hate her) she'll relize that shes being stupid. either that, or she'll ask why you've been ignoring her. that'll give you your chance to explain what you think and her actually put some thought into it. hope this helps!
MiiCHELLE..*
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ok just try hanging out with some other friends and say dud i kinda think we need some time apart ok and its not you its me and just see if she changes it is usually something at home that caoused this
sally
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I have a best friend who can be really immature at times, but its not a permanent thing. Maybe she is just trying to have a good time with you, but if you arent feelin it, you should definately tell her. Dont embarass her or anything like that, just ask her why she acts that way all the time. See if she really is that immature or if shes just trying to act that way to impress someone or for some other strange reason ??? Just talk to her about it; Im sure she will unerstand~
♥Emily
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hey there,
I think that you should tell her one on one, somewhere you guys wont be bothered. If you try to do it in front of too many people she will try and act cool.
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maybe shes goign through a fase . .you should try and tell her one more time and tell her really seriously that way maybe se will take it seriously!! good luck hope everything works out! =) x0x
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