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So confused


Question Posted Wednesday April 27 2005, 11:18 am

Alright me and my girlfriend have been going out for 8 months now and just recently for the second time we are on a break. Well every time this happen she it seems like she goes and tries to find someone to go out with i dont know what to do about it she keeps telling me she wants to get back together but know i just don't know what to do. By the way im 17 and a junior and she is 16 and a sophmore. what i am asking is what should i do. should i forget about her or should i do something. please could someone give me some advise!!!

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Michele answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 11:09 pm:
It sounds like your girlfriend can't stand to be alone Being with someone is more important to her than being faithful to you. Would you do that to her? I guess not. So you need to find someone who shares the same values that you have in order to be really happy. It would never recommend staying with someone who can't be alone, they are too needy and will wear you out.
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Guitar4eva1243 answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 4:17 pm:
OK....You have to think.Do you really love her?Is she worth fighting for over other guys when you love her more than all of them?I had a problem like this before and yes im a guy and i dumped her and that was the worst choice ive made in years i miss her so much and nothing has worked so dont let go yet

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punkbaby69 answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 1:14 pm:
okay well if this is the second time then drop here i have dated for a year and a half and he wanted to go on break four times and i even waited and he kept telling me he wants to go back out with me and then he changes his mind and i made a mistake and waied for a week then i met this really nice guy he is 4 yrs older then me yes i have forgotten about my ex but if i was you i would just move on i hoped i help

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BeFABULOUSxo answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 12:07 pm:
I know this might sound really really mean. I'm sorry but its probably the case. She's probably a tad bit bored. Not bored with you but bored of the same thing all the time. She just wants to find something out of the ordinary for a while then she'll realize how much she loves you. You should do something really special for her. Like get her a stuffed animal or something. Or just confront her and tell her that these little "breaks" she has are bothering you xO ali

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Evikins answered Wednesday April 27 2005, 12:05 pm:
Hey... I know how you feelin'. To me it sounds like she wants to date other guys, yet wants to be with you. Its also a tough position on her part. Why don't you sit down and have a talk with her. Ask her what she really wants -(if she wants to date others and if she still REALLY wants you) keepin' in mind that this is the second break. As for you, what do u want? Wanna go out with her still (do you still like her)? Or do you want to date another? Ask yourself these questions and I know u'll make your decision from there. Remember if its destiny, u can still be with her in the future. Don't wait on/for her. Good luck and Hope this helps.
Nicole

You got back to me ... so i'm replyin' again. Break it off once and for all. Snd don't give her the chance to hold your hands or let her kiss ya. Watever, don't fall for her sweet talks and traps. She's not worthy of you. From my point of view, i think she's usin' you bc when she's been abandoned, u're like her free house, aso she'll run back to ya. Plz break it off. And trust me, you'll be happy you did. If u need more help, I'm always here.

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