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best friends.
okay well, my best friend and i, we just got super close, and well yeah. He has a girlfriend, but before they hooked up I told him i liked him like 3 weeks ago, and things got odd, but then got better. Anyway. So everyday he sits with me when the lunch periods almost over, and we talk, and even though his friends sit at the table right next to us and theyre right there, he wont talk to them and he talks to me. So a couple days ago i went to his house with my friend and he just payed more attention to me. Like when we were playing basketball he passed the ball to me every time and never to her. Then today, he was sitting with me and we were looking at pictures, and we could have been far appart but he leaned in really close. And then my friend dom told him this sixth grader didnt like him anymore, and he's like, okay i dont care im not cheating on my girlfriend, i dont think, and he looked me directly in the eye and we made eye contact and he stared at me for a minute and then some one started talking to us. So then at this assembly thingy, 2 of the people he sits with said something about stabbing him, like joking around, so i told him, and he was like, what nicks not my friend. and so i told nick and hes like, shut up bitch, in a playing way, but i told him anyway, and he was like, Yo, WHAT DID YOU CALL HR? WHAT? and then later today he was like, i would have said something but our reading teacher was right behind us. and i we kept talking and anyway im just wondering if he thinks were more than just friends??
and i have another question. today he had a break down and he was like, i dont have any friends, the only people i have is my girlfriend and you and my other friend, and me and his other friend are REALLY worried that he's going to like kill himself, because when we told him to hold on he said he'd held long enough. What can i do to help him?
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It sounds like he really likes you and like he wants to be more than just friends. The thing is he has a girlfriend so he probably knows that you are just friends but wants to be more than that. As for him wanting to kill himself just talk to him. Let him know that you are there if he needs to talk and that you don't want him to hurt himself. He has friends and people who care about him and if he knows that then he won't kill himself.
Good luck and I hope things work out with your friend
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You can't do anything if you don't know what the problem is. Find that out and maybe you can be of help.
I think he likes you, I think if he didn't have a girfriend you might have a shot. But, since he does you are second right now. I notice he said the only people he has is his GIRLFRIEND, and you. He put her first. So, continue being a really good friend to him and one day when they are no longer going together, I think you will have a shot at him. :)
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Ok well he seems to have like a thing for if he is close to you and flirting with you and doesnt sit with his friends at the lunch but sits with you thts a big sign tht he likes you brecasue i did tht with the girl i liked in school and we ended up going out and with that break down thing try to comfort him hang out with him alot more so he thinks hes got more than just a girlfriend and you
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i would tell his parents or some teacher at school..it might be tattle-taily but at least u could save him.
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he considers you his best friend most likely if he pays that much attention to you. you need to talk to him personally either you could tell him how you feel or you could spend a fun day with him at the movies or something and if none of that works if he pays that much attention to you then he must like you. tell him privately "i know you have a girlfriend but ithought i should get it out that i really like you" he might feel better about himself after that.
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