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hi there people really bother me in school, i dont have much friends and they all tease me. boys call me a mutt and a dog and disguting pig, im not fat though and im not reallly ugly. girls bark and moo at me and push me and im sick of it, i have 2 bestfriends but they dont stick up for me. if these people knew what i been through like, my dad died when i was 6 and my bothers friggen a crack head, ligit and my sisters a big whore who doesnt talk to the whole fam.. i dont have anyone and im sick of it, what should i do?
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Just stand up for youself girl! Reason with them. Dont be shy! Let them know how you feel. Liek you said...if they knew what i've gone through...well let 'em know! Sock it to 'em! asHleyx3
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Im sorry about everything you are going through. Well these pupils at your school are just evil really they have nothing better to do with their life than to make yours worse. gnore them and stand up to them! if you do that they wont do it again trust me, there was this guy who picked on me and one day i hit him and he didnt say anything to me again and he was really nice to me after that! im not sugesting that you go around hitting everyone that is mean to you though. lol and as for your friends then they arent very good friends if they dont stick up for you tell them how you feel. Try and talk to a school counciler. hope i have helped you
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I'm sorry to hear that. Go to the Guidance counselor at your school. Tell him/her whats going on at school. I am sure he/she can have a talk to the students and maybe they will clean up their act. Also let the Guidance counselor know what's going on at your home life. I bet your two best friends don't stick up for you so they don't get into a fight and lose their own friends. Hope everything works for you! ;-)
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well don't listen to what others say about you define yourself and stick up for yourself by leting them know it doesn't hurt you even if it does, maybe you should take you bookbag or a book or what ever you can grab as long as it doesn't like kill anyone and use it. Just hit them in the face or just where ever and let them know you won't take it cuz dude I've been there and you don't have to take it.
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sometimes people can be so mean, so ruthless, and they just dont even take the time to realize what they are doing. i think the best thing to do would be to just ignore them, completely shut them out. dont let them know they are getting to you. if that doesnt work, sometimes to make a change, you have to take physical action. (but only as a last resort) i know it must be hard for you, if only people could take a step into people like your's shoes, to see what its like. just try to enjoy life, mo matter how hard it is.
the True answer is God!
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FiRst of all, that'sassualt, and you can veRy well file foR haRRassment oveR that. Have you tRied speaking with youR pRincipal about this? MoRe than likely he'll be conceRned about the way he's Running his school and should help you betteR this situation. But if not, then the next time people bug you, go see youR jeRkwad pRincipal again, and RepoRt it once moRe. If he STILL doesn't do anything, then tell him he'll "be heaRing fRom" youR paRents, and have youR paRents schedule a meeting between the two of them. I'm so soRRie to heaR that this is happening to you - it shouldn't be so. Kids aRe always so Ruthless, immatuRe, and disRespectful to one anotheR, and quite fRankly... it makes me ill. I'm *POSITIVE* that you'Re not ugly like these childRen make you out to be! It's impoRtant to neveR foRget that the *ONLY* thing that matteRs is what *YOU* think of *YOURSELF*. And if it helps any, you'Re b.e.a.u.t.i.f.u.l to me!! Just RemembeR to keep youR chin up and youR head held high! I wish theRe weRe something moRe I could do foR you, but I'm afRaid this is about it. Know that you can always come to me if you eveR feel you'Re in need of anotheR opinion. I wish you the veRy best of luck - hopefully eveRything woRks out!!
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Stand up for your self push back try and do something people will think good about you i used to have really big problems like that i fought back and now i have to many friends(when i say fight i dont mean punch kick i mean stand out)>hope this helped you against those fuckers
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there's nothing you can do (don't take this the wrong way) but if you tell people about what's going on in your personal life they are going to think that you just want sympathy. and i know that's not what you want. find outwhy your friends don't stick up for you if they are your friends then why can't they show it? the strongest person in the world is the one who can overcome any obstical. all you need to do is be strong try not to let what others say bring you down and i know that you'll be ok
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aww fuck them.. there probly juss jealous.. like wtf yeahhh this has happened to most people.. i hate it when people make fun of me but stick up for yourself and don't worry what they think.. and its better to have atleast one best friends then a buch of mean friends <3 hope this helps!
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They may be judging you by your siblings behaviour. It isn't right, but people tend to do that. Hopefully they will see that you are not like them.
Unfortunatley, there isn't much you can do to change their behavior. Don't let them see that they are getting to you or they will just do it more. It would be nice if your friends would stick up for you but some people are scared they will be the next target. Ignore them the best you can. Sorry I have nothing helpful to add. :)
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it must take a pretty strong person to deal with that!!! Which is what you are! Your beautiful and indipendant,maybe try out for a sport,or join a club. If your life is TOTALLY in the dumps,and you dont care if you move away,maybe you could move to a better town,but that might not be a good suggestion at all. What is your age? Any popular girls in your class? sit near them maybe...and sit @ there lunch table...get to no them! I know this might sound stupid but what i did was take a step @ a time and make people notice you in a good way. Any talents? thats good to! You really only need 2 or 3 good friends than 15 bad back-stabbing friends!! People target you because you dont have many friends. [[personally i'd ask to move away...but thats just me and you dont have to ask!!]]
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If people are going to treat you like that, then they aren't even worth your time. I know you've probably been trying to block everything out the past few months or years. And the way I see it, that's all you can probably do. Unless you want to stick up for yourself. But to me, you don't have to. As long as your happy with yourself, what everyone else says shouldn't matter. They are just sick of their own boring lives and pick on other people to make themselves look cool & interesting. To me, people like them are pathetic. They don't deserve one second of your breathe or time. Get closer with your two bestfriends if you feel lonely. You will make more friends, i'm sure your whole school can't be so ignorant and unthoughtful like the people that insult you are. I'm sorry, you deserve none of this. But sometimes the unexplainable happens to us, and we just have to learn from it.
I envy you. You are so strong. If I was in your position I couldn't last one day. I wish I had your strength. Keep it up, & good luck.
If you ever need anyone to talk to, I'm here. Always.
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people are really big assholes so fuck them!! you dont need them.. try to look at the better things in life.. work hard in school and some day your going to have a great life.. you have to accept your past, you cant change that.. all you can change is the present.. dont let anyone put you down, stick up for yourself.. hope it helps
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oh hun, dont worry those people are wacked and definetly messed up. thats a really trajic, sad family. i wish i could understand how messed up it is and how you feel but u got to keep strong. tell your mom about thse issues and she cant raise a family being like that and tell her about how your sister is. if it doesnt help ask an aunt or something to stay there. the kids in school, wow what jokes.. when they say things just laugh at them and say you really need to grow up. theyll be shocked, goodluck babeexoxo
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